My friends self harming.

[louder]

Yeah well my friends an emo and she's really depressed coz lyk her dads got cancer and stuff and she's being bullied at school.

Well she's started sliting her wrists and punching herself in the arm and im really worried because she slits her wrists like LOADS. She's got 12 marks on 1 wrist and 8 marks on the other and she passed out because she did like the 8 at the same time.

Me & me friends have been trying to stop her alot by like telling her that if she doesn't do it for like a week we'll give her a hug everyday for a month and stuff.

But she's only 13 and she needs help

Also, Somtimes I feel like slitting my wrist because of various reasons but im worried if I get really depressed if I do because A: My wrists are extreamly thin and the vains are verry close to the top of the skin & B: Because depression runs on my dads side.

So yeah, stuffs pritty messed up at the moment.

I need advice and help.

Don't do it, it doesn't actually solve anything and just becomes addictive tbh and you feel you need to everytime your upset, me and various numbers of my friends have been down that road.

Also, tell you friend to see a school councellor, her parent's don't have to know and it's completely confidential, it's what I do, it help alot tbh.

[Rozi]

She's sounding suicidal. That ***** of a boyfriend is being a little idiot.

(Edited out swear words and this is copied from her Bebo)

OK.

My life is f***ing pointless. My life is a moral s**thole of dispair and hatred. My life is a black abyss.

And you know the f**k why?

Everyone I have EVER ******* loved, and the one person I thought I loved most, lets me down.>>dead<<

//One person I thought I could trust, someone who...'liked' me for who I was...//

Every f***ing thing goes away in the end

And I guess the end has f***ing come.

((So...see you, f***ers, and the one day I find a sharp enough razor blade to slash myself up so much to the point where I don't get back up again will be the happiest f***ing day fo my misrible wasted pathetic little excuse for a life.\\

{So long, c**tfaces.}

I never f***ing asked for this.

<How does it feel when everything you thought you knew was a lie>

IMF***INGDEAD

[sarey]

Eeek.

Okay, well you can only be there for her, and try and stop her from doing it.

Suicide is to be taken seriously, whether it sounds fake or not, in this case, id say not.

I think her parents really DO need to know. This could really become serious, more so than it already is.

Take care.

[Rozi]

Thanks for the advice, i'm really worried about her

I have a mentor at school for various reasons. I could get my friend to come and see her... mabye she'de tell her parents.

I told her that I most proberly are moving schools and she really got depressed, but she promised me she wouldn't do anything stupid, but I don't know

[:Hazel]

Self harming isn't the answer, you need to talk to someone in authority about this & about any concerns you have for you & your mate.

[Decapitated!]

Please god self harming is wrong.

Really wrong my wrists are scared badly and its horrible when you have to wear long sleeves in warm weather. seriously its bad and very so addictive but youll have to help her tell her the consequences make it seem more worse than it is may be tough but should work..