How do you tell your Mum..

[Ostinato]

I wouldn't tell her at Christmas. She could ultimately get upset by it or just be shocked, and it could ruin yours and your other family members time.

I think you should sit her down sometime this month, and just explain to her. Tell her it isn't a choice you personally made, it's just something that you are and you can't change it. Try and explain to her that you have taken time to come to terms and get used to it yourself, and you trust and love her enough to feel she has a right to know as you are both now mature adults.

If she doesn't take it the right way, then you need to understand. Don't be like storming off straight away or anything - because obviously it will be a bit upsetting and a shock to her to find something like that out, especially if she doesn't suspect it already. Therefore, if she does, just tell her your sorry but it's what you are and at the end of the day shes going to need to come to terms with it whether she likes it not, as it isn't something you can just change when you feel like it.

Just because your friends mum took it well, has no rellevance to your own mums reaction. Some people just act and have differet opinions to other people, on things. I wouldn't get jealous, because by seeing that your mum is concerned and upset about it - it shows she does care for you in her own way.

I wouldn't worry too much though. It's what you are. Your happy with it, so why shouldn't she be?

[Ry]

Thanks for the advice mate

[womanizer]

Leave some dirty pictures on yoru PC screen and go in bath x

thats what I done.... lolol

didnt turn out very good my dad was about to hit me...

[hit-by-a-car]

Dont tell her. simple. Keep it secret - LIVE A SECRET ALL YOUR LIFE! :eusa_clap :eusa_danc

[alexxxxx]

Dont tell her. simple. Keep it secret - LIVE A SECRET ALL YOUR LIFE! :eusa_clap :eusa_danc

i don't think you really can.

[womanizer]

i don't think you really can.

that guy in coronation street hasnt told his lolol

[-Wolverine]

As a mod, you should know this is supposed to be in 'Gay/Lesbian chat'

I'd try and wait till Jan maybe, and tell her then, it's after Christmas, and nothing important really comes soon after so no one's holidays would be ruined.

I'd just tell her straight up, and see what she says.

Edit: You moved it now lol.

[Billay]

theres so many gays on this forum its unbelievable.

[Flumples]

o i just told mine I was bi when I was drunk.

didnt actually say 'IM BI' though...

'mum im ****ing girls AND guys!!'

which was probably worse than just going 'yeh im bi'...

[benjamin]

um well, i don't think i'd be in this situation as my mum found out from a friend ;__; didn't go down to well with my dad but ermm..

i think it'd be easier if you could like, leave her hints? and then try and get her to ask you if you are, it'd be easier.

hope i helped.