Smoking

[fetish]

talk to him about it on your own with him.

[Nick.]

Well, firstly, I'd like to say don't try it, it won't get you anywhere, and is also a major health risk. For more information check out the BBC's health section here.

If I were you, I would ask your mum if you can have a chat in private and sit down and discuss it with her. Tell her to listen to you before she does anything, and explain that you don't want your dad to know you told her. You may wish to ask your mum to speak with your dad about it. It's upto you.

Hope it all goes well!
Nick xx

[JackHb]

Also I found his lighter and cigs the other day, and I am tempted to start myself.

Whatever you do, don't start! As you will just become addicted, and it really is not nice to get to the point where you need to have one when you wake up, then you get the taste of tobacco in your mouth for the rest of the day. I am now like that and its disgusting, today i was in a lesson and had to ask the teacher for a 5 minute break inbetween our double so i could go and have one.

It's really stupid to smoke, whatever you do don't start! A

And yes i know i have just said its stupid to smoke yet i do it, but i think i am stupid for smoking so shh!

[DCeption]

Smoking is a disgusting habbit, start if your a complete moron, and want to pay to kill yourself!

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Smoking is a disgusting habbit, start if your a complete moron, and want to pay to kill yourself!

your far too critical ur saying start if your a moron i smoke because it helps relieve stress if not im all up tight and things so i feel it helps and smoking doesnt always kill yea its not great but so many people smoke and they live to a ripe old age so please think of others before u call people "morons"

[DCeption]

your far too critical ur saying start if your a moron i smoke because it helps relieve stress if not im all up tight and things so i feel it helps and smoking doesnt always kill yea its not great but so many people smoke and they live to a ripe old age so please think of others before u call people "morons"

Theres plenty of other things to do to releave yourself from stress, and i can understand how it might help, but there are far better methods, and imo i still do think it is stupid to smoke and not to mention you are harming others as you smoke!

[letisix]

Yes, There is many Over Way's to Not Get Stressed.. Execept from smoking..

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well i find smoking the most effective i enjoy it have a need for it therefore im addicted if you underwent the pressure i have its very easy to see why i smoke and nothing is effective i box that is supposed to relieve stress etc doesnt help so ye..

[velvet]

well i find smoking the most effective i enjoy it have a need for it therefore im addicted if you underwent the pressure i have its very easy to see why i smoke and nothing is effective i box that is supposed to relieve stress etc doesnt help so ye..

It doesn't relieve stress. It's a placebo.
The only stress it relieves is the stress you get from not having a cigarette.
Which is stress that you wouldn't have if you didn't start smoking.

[Dj_dude007]

It doesn't relieve stress. It's a placebo.

That is NOT true. I am a smoker and its does definately relieve stress so unless you know the facts, dont make comments that you THINK you know.

Anyway...

I think the best thing to do is to speak to him on his own. Also, if he decides to smoke, it is his choice and he will be the one who may face the consequences later in life. Perhaps, drop hints to him such as 'My mate has started smoking and I feel it will make him/her ill if he/she carries and I really dislike people smoking.' Might work.