My mum

[DiscoPat]

If I were you, I would talk to a doctor, and ask whats the best thing to do, because maybe if you do or say somthing wrong it might be worse? Phone the Doctor ask for appointment.

[-Undiscovered]

thanks but she doesnt understand that she has a problem

[risque]

I agree with Casanova for once, don't listen to those who are saying "just run away for a bit, say you're leaving" because none of that works, seriously. You just have to take every situation as it comes tbh, and when she's drunk - walk past her and completely dismiss the fact she's there; walk straight past her. She'll probably realise that it's effecting others and not just herself.

[CrabRacket]

Ok, I am going through with exactly what your going through. What ever you do, set goals and stuff through the week and give it a try. Never say anything like you'll kill yourself and stuff because trust me, it won't work.
Try the AA club for a while until your mum starts to cut down but make sure it lasts for three months. Usually, its religious and stuff.
My mum has started moving onto stronger stuff (from wine to coniac) and brandy.
When she is sober, talk to her and make her feel relaxed and stuff. Don't badger her since it doesn't work. Make breakfast and plenty of water but at the same time DONT agree to her limits being normal.
My mum only has to drink a few glasses of wine and shes topsy turvy. Remember, if she starts to get the shakes in the mornings, there really isn't much hope. So don't stop trying! Please!