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    Quote Originally Posted by 01101101entor View Post
    Everyones lost someone at somepoint o.0 the main differnce is most people dont start about 80 threads to tell a bunch of compete strangers about it...
    Well maybe he's not "most people"?

    Everyone deals with their grief in their own individual way, and he has every right to post here about it and look for other peoples experiences. Perhaps, he's hoping to learn how other people managed to overcome hard losses and use them to help himself get through his difficult time.

    You have no place to try and put him down about it. If you don't like the fact he posts threads of this nature, then you know exactly what to do - ignore them or click the big X mate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ostinato View Post


    Well maybe he's not "most people"?

    Everyone deals with their grief in their own individual way, and he has every right to post here about it and look for other peoples experiences. Perhaps, he's hoping to learn how other people managed to overcome hard losses and use them to help himself get through his difficult time.

    You have no place to try and put him down about it. If you don't like the fact he posts threads of this nature, then you know exactly what to do - ignore them or click the big X mate.
    And i have every right to tell him to shutup about it, its the same right hes useing to post about it to start with you may notice.

    Plus of cause hes not most people, most people as i said, dont feel the need to tell a load of complete stranges about there late cat.

    I already ignored a few topics he created on this, but when you post on an open forum and ask peoples opinions, your gona get em, this ones mine. If you want to challenge my right to give it? what exsactly is the right you think you have that allows you to challenge mine?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 01101101entor View Post
    And i have every right to tell him to shutup about it, its the same right hes useing to post about it to start with you may notice.

    Plus of cause hes not most people, most people as i said, dont feel the need to tell a load of complete stranges about there late cat.

    I already ignored a few topics he created on this, but when you post on an open forum and ask peoples opinions, your gona get em, this ones mine. If you want to challenge my right to give it? what exsactly is the right you think you have that allows you to challenge mine?
    I am not trying to undermine the fact you have a right to post in response to his thread. I am simply saying, if you have such a problem with him posting this when why reply? Surely, "most people", would just ignore it if it bothered them that much.

    I am simply saying he has every right to post his grievances here if he wishes, and he is doing so to look for advice - which is entirely up to him. Likewise, you have every right to post in response to his thread. However, I personally don't see why you feel you have to try and bring his thread down and undermine his post simply because he is looking for some help to get through a hard experience.
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    My brother when he was 5 hours old, 2 dogs, a grandad I was VERY close to, 2 gerbils and a mouse.

    ^^ Life is hard, but hell, it ain't meant to be that hard

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    Lets stur things ups shall we?


    FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!




    I lost: 2 uncles, aunt, great aunt, 2 hamsters (lol) and umm, dunno what else.

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    Grandma, 2 granddads, aunt, uncle(sp?), dog.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ostinato View Post


    Well maybe he's not "most people"?

    Everyone deals with their grief in their own individual way, and he has every right to post here about it and look for other peoples experiences. Perhaps, he's hoping to learn how other people managed to overcome hard losses and use them to help himself get through his difficult time.

    You have no place to try and put him down about it. If you don't like the fact he posts threads of this nature, then you know exactly what to do - ignore them or click the big X mate.
    Well said! +rep!

    I have lost: grandma and grandad, 3 ferrets, 2 dogs.

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    When my dad's mother passed away, I was little but I knew what was going on, that was really bad. Recently, we didn't experience any losses.


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    Both my nans and Both my grandads lifes hard but you gotta move on tbh
    I’ll be a story in your head, but that’s okay, because we’re all stories in the end. Just make it a good one, eh? Because it was, you know. It was the best. A daft old man who stole a magic box and ran away. Did I ever tell you that I stole it? Well, I borrowed it. I always meant to take it back. Oh, that box, Amy, you’ll dream about that box. It’ll never leave you. Big and little at the same time. Brand-new and ancient and the bluest blue ever. And the times we had, eh? Would had…Never had. In your dreams, they’ll still be there. The Doctor and Amy Pond and the days that never came.

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    both grandads,Gran, god knows how many animals

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