Step Dad's Anger - Out of control.

[Hecktix]

The only one of your stories I ever believed was to do with your stepdad.

So i'll believe that this one is true, all your love life ones are ********, but yeah.


You should get a lock on your bedroom door, thats what i did!

[dirrty]

i would definetly call childline or social services as he is just damn right out of order. your not even his child so he cant even talk to you like that. for him to expect respect from you, he has to give respect first. and it seems like he is giving the opposite.

i would talk to your mum about this, but she may just shrug it off as she loves him. i think he needs anger management classes as you only did something which you had permission to do so. so he doesnt have the right to overpower your mothers permission - as well she is your mother and he isnt your father.

you shouldnt be afraid in your own house, and if he hits you or throws verbal abuse at you anymore, i advice to call the police straight away. that will put him straight in his place as he will know straight away that you are not scared of him and that he is in the ****.

hope it all gets better

[indian8132]

Your replies are all appericiated! +Rep to everyone who replied with useful information.

Also, no he was born in Germany in a British Army Camp and he has always had something against the irish randomly coming up to me saying "Seán, the Irish are hypocrits" - Dont ask why he says it.

Edit - Must spread before giving it to dirrty. Will make note

[dirrty]

Your replies are all appericiated! +Rep to everyone who replied with useful information.

Also, no he was born in Germany in a British Army Camp and he has always had something against the irish randomly coming up to me saying "Seán, the Irish are hypocrits" - Dont ask why he says it.

Edit - Must spread before giving it to dirrty. Will make note

so he has something against the irish, but is with your mother? lol
& he is far from "manly" if he is picking fights with a child like yourself. if he was "manly" he would respect you and treat you as an equal. since he is incapable of doing so, he should take is own advice and see who is manly, because it is definetly not him.

[indian8132]

so he has something against the irish, but is with your mother? lol
& he is far from "manly" if he is picking fights with a child like yourself. if he was "manly" he would respect you and treat you as an equal. since he is incapable of doing so, he should take is own advice and see who is manly, because it is definetly not him.

Thats exactly what I think, if he dont like the Irish why is he with my mum :S Also, he really wanted me to hit him last night, he kept going "Go on Seán, hit me right there" and wouldnt stop, but I didnt. Is this because if I hit him, he has the right to hit me back?

[dirrty]

Thats exactly what I think, if he dont like the Irish why is he with my mum :S Also, he really wanted me to hit him last night, he kept going "Go on Seán, hit me right there" and wouldnt stop, but I didnt. Is this because if I hit him, he has the right to hit me back?

he doesnt have the right to hit you in the first place. as a grown man, he should know that if a child hit him, it doesnt give him the right to hit that child back.

if you did hit him and he hit you. then if you took it further to the police it would sound stupid when they asked what happened. "seán hit me, so i hit him back". sounds like a childish thing imo lol.

but seriously, if he does anything just ring the police. your mum should understand why you did it and should be on your side. if she isnt, well then you, your step dad and your mother need to have a big indepth conversation about everything and everyone.

[jrh2002]

Talk to your mum and see what she has to say about living with this mad man. surely if hes behaving like that towards you she should get rid for all your safety.

[indian8132]

Yes. it would sound silly for him saying it ot the police

I'm currently not at school because I fell down the stairs this morning! But, when mum gets back from the shops I will talk to her because he is at work

[lAdmire]

Tell your mom how you feel. She should talk to him. Does your mom not do anything?

Also you shouldn't feel unmanly to cry. Everyone cries. Even those you may look all tough and macho. Don't hold it inside because that's sometimes how self harm begins. I think you should just tell your step dad how you feel. If he tries to do something, tell the cops. Don't be scared, do what is right.

I think you should just do what your instinct tells you. You can take my advice, or you can do what you want. I just hope this situation gets better because it sounds very horrible.

[indian8132]

Tell your mom how you feel. She should talk to him. Does your mom not do anything?

Also you shouldn't feel unmanly to cry. Everyone cries. Even those you may look all tough and macho. Don't hold it inside because that's sometimes how self harm begins. I think you should just tell your step dad how you feel. If he tries to do something, tell the cops. Don't be scared, do what is right.

I think you should just do what your instinct tells you. You can take my advice, or you can do what you want. I just hope this situation gets better because it sounds very horrible.

Thanks - Update - He is still living with us.