Her mums boyfriend took advantage of her.

[Kissed]

I know it does.
But since we were little she's always been the one looking after me.
So now i'm trying to do it for her; she's having none of it, she just wont listen to me.
But I should defo bring it up again to her?

[Lepore]

Tbh I think she needs to talk to her mother. As much as she's gonna hurt her
but her mom can't be with a guy that has done w/e to her. It isn't right nor is it sanitary. If she doesn't tell her mother this will haunt her for the rest of her life. Honestly. She'll think about it day and night.
As a friend i would sit her down and talk to her. Get her comfortable to talking to you. Then Bring it up slowly. Tell her you need to gather your strength and come out with it and fess up to her. There should be no perfessional help involved unless it is serious. But i hope she gets better and honestly fesses up. Thats the best advice i can get. And katie you should just be there for her whenever she needs a shoulder to lean on. hope this helps 3333

[Paulio]

Your friend really needs to tell someone because he will think he got away with it and just do it again and again.

[Kissed]

Tbh I think she needs to talk to her mother. As much as she's gonna hurt her

but her mom can't be with a guy that has done w/e to her. It isn't right nor is it sanitary. If she doesn't tell her mother this will haunt her for the rest of her life. Honestly. She'll think about it day and night.
As a friend i would sit her down and talk to her. Get her comfortable to talking to you. Then Bring it up slowly. Tell her you need to gather your strength and come out with it and fess up to her. There should be no perfessional help involved unless it is serious. But i hope she gets better and honestly fesses up. Thats the best advice i can get. And katie you should just be there for her whenever she needs a shoulder to lean on. hope this helps 3333

Thanks Liz.
I'm gonna try and actually talk to her again to her face about it next time I see her.
Thankyouu.

[dirrty]

I know it does.
But since we were little she's always been the one looking after me.
So now i'm trying to do it for her; she's having none of it, she just wont listen to me.
But I should defo bring it up again to her?

keep on bringing it up. and if she keeps on ignoring you, just go to the police yourself. your friend may feel you went behind her back but it needs to be done. you would feel better knowing that you helped your friend than just brushing it off your shoulder like she seems to want you to do.

[Kissed]

The thing is though, you would expect him to like be embarrased.
He came in to her room in the morning and sat on her bed.
She told him to get out and close the door behind him and he just left.
I've met him and you really wouldn't expect him to be anything like it, everyone loves him. I think she's scared that noones going to believe her.

[dirrty]

The thing is though, you would expect him to like be embarrased.
He came in to her room in the morning and sat on her bed.
She told him to get out and close the door behind him and he just left.
I've met him and you really wouldn't expect him to be anything like it, everyone loves him. I think she's scared that noones going to believe her.

he properly thinks she wouldnt do anything and will just leave it. but dont make your friend just leave it. when do you next see her? if its some time away meet her asap and do something.

if you leave it too late, he will think that nothing will happen and think he has a "pass" and he may keep on doing it, knowing that nothing will happen.

[Kissed]

he properly thinks she wouldnt do anything and will just leave it. but dont make your friend just leave it. when do you next see her? if its some time away meet her asap and do something.

if you leave it too late, he will think that nothing will happen and think he has a "pass" and he may keep on doing it, knowing that nothing will happen.

Well we're basically related but not kind of thing.
We have the same cousin and aunty and uncle, so we grew up together.
I can see her whenever but I know me and i'll probably go about it all wrong so I want to get it totally figured in my head before I do anything about it.
I know, i'm gonna have to take her to the police.

[dirrty]

Well we're basically related but not kind of thing.
We have the same cousin and aunty and uncle, so we grew up together.
I can see her whenever but I know me and i'll probably go about it all wrong so I want to get it totally figured in my head before I do anything about it.
I know, i'm gonna have to take her to the police.

well good luck with it all, hope it all goes in you and your friends favour, not her mums bf.

but yh, go see her asap, talk to her aunty with your friend then go to her mum. her mum might shrug it off thinking your friend is messing around but final step is to go to the police, full stop. even if your friend says not to, go. but to get him done, your friend will obviously need to give statements etc. so you will have to make sure your friend wants to go to the police. convince her that if she doesnt, her mums bf may do it again and again and again and that it can ruin her life. also possibly mention that her mum would be more upset if she found out that her bf took advantage of her daughter later on than finding out straight away.

did you friend say when it happened?

edit: like a few weeks/months ago?

[Kissed]

Thankyou so much, you've been loads of help.
It happened the night before last..
Saturday night.

+Rep xo