Should I Give Him A Chance?

[jellme]

i totally have no idea what to do..

[Pretendant]

I wouldn't like to be Second choice if I was you.
It seems hes been rejected and is just moving onto the next person.
Way to see if his intentions are true :]

[Psychonaut]

lol work.. all the people i`ve liked lately have been from there.. scum.

anyhow, yeah, i think it seems kinda weird.. if you like him enough i would give it a try.. but not if you like him so much that it would hurt bad if things didn`t go well..

[jellme]

well ive took your advices, and i decided to give him a chance, so now we're going out. But it doesnt really feel like we're in a relationship, and it seems like he doesnt want anybody to know about us, especially my friend. that he says he doesnt like.

[Rizla,]

He wants to shag you. That's about all

[Ostinato]

To be honest I havn't fully read the whole situation as I don't have a lot of time but though I would just make a wee comment - and the guy most likely doesn't deserve a chance from you.

However my girlfriend nearly didn't give me a chance at the start of our relationship because I had a bit of a tough time in life and had stood her up a couple of times... but she finally gave me another chance and we have been together 2 years and it's the best relationship we have both ever been in.

[Jinc]

If his feelings can float around so easily, maybe you should take a step back before you jump into a possibly hurtful situation.

[:Hazel]

i'd play hard to get maybe give him a chance just not so easily so he doesnt think he can get anyone he wants.

[WarezKid]

but he always send me texts to know how im doin, and sometimes calls me, but sometimes online, he doesnt even talk or try to start a conversation

Online is a different thing :S


Like you said, i do that with my gf, i text most of the times, and not online becasue i'm always busy. if she wanted to talk to me, she would message me ect.

[Jaiisun]

Let's go with this...

I think he's worth one chance.

Don't be too optimistic, and don't necessarily get straight into it, see how it is. See how you feel in the relationship. If you don't like it, it's your right to get out of it.

You could talk to him about it- or maybe he isn't that type. We're only here for ideas, since we don't know every last detail.

He could be worth it.
He could not.
There's only one way to find out.

But, don't become a doormat. If he does something wrong, don't overlook it, point it out. If he doesn't act on what you tell him, he's not listening to you and then, you get straight out.

If you do decide to get with him, tell him how you feel. Remind him he has one chance and if he messes that one up, he's not getting another.