My whole family are crazy..

[lAdmire]

well, i think you need to take this up with your family.
talk to them.
tell them exactly how you feel.
hopefully they will understand.
here's some seperate advice for each.

mom
maybe you need to get your mom psychological help.
she needs to visit a doctor.
because she's going to keep drinking & driving until one day, she's going to hurt someone & pay the price.
umm... yeah.

dad
well, if your dad decides to smoke, it's his decision.
umm, talk to him.
tell him how you feel.
let him know that he's hurting the family & tearing you guys apart.

hopefully both your parents will understand because this is some serious issues that you guys are going through & i hope they get better.
make sure you come back & tell me the outcome of the advice you were given from all of us habbox members.

[reindeer.]

The only way your gonna get through this one is to be carcastic. Right, first you need to cry, get siomething that makes you cry really bad, now to the words. Go to a point you mum and your dad are together and say. "Ive had enough of my life, i feel like killing myself because of you, your making my life a miserable by all your fightings and addicts, unless this stops im gonna kill myself" (just be carcastic)

thats not sarcasm ;/

[Stephen]

thats not sarcasm ;/

LOL!! :rolleyes:

Thats called lying and meaning that after you've said it, your mum and dad will make you have counsilling.

[CJW93]

Talk to a friend a cousion or any family member

[seattlegrace]

The only way your gonna get through this one is to be carcastic. Right, first you need to cry, get siomething that makes you cry really bad, now to the words. Go to a point you mum and your dad are together and say. "Ive had enough of my life, i feel like killing myself because of you, your making my life a miserable by all your fightings and addicts, unless this stops im gonna kill myself" (just be carcastic)

I actually agree. (Although none of that is sarcasm, it's called being melodramatic) It hits them where it hurts, thats what you want as they'll feel doubtful on themselves, hopefully bringing you all closer together. If they feel too doubtful, then god knows. Professional help could be an option.

[5,5]

Get proffesional help from somebody.

[Soka]

once an alcoholic your always an alcoholic, so if you give up for a year and have one drop of it again, then you'll start up again.

i would suggest to your mum going to an alcoholics anomynous place where other alcoholics go and discuss how long they've being off and stuff - tell her your thinking of leaving if she doesn't at least make an effort to sort out her problem - DON'T tell her your thinking of killing yourself cos thats just stupid

and your dad, maybe hes angry because your mums drunk all the time? or try get him to go to an anger managment class or something so that he deals with his anger himself, rather than out on other people like yourself. smoking damages your health, but i guess if he can't give it up tell him to do it outside so hes only damaging his own health and not yours aswell.

i strongly advice seeking professional help/ringing a help line because you should not be dealing with this problem yourself

[Shawnstra]

I think you should call for help. Maybe get your aunts and uncles to step in to help you with this, you can maybe call childline to get them to help you. Try to make your parents understand their mistakes. Maybe indirectly send your mum to counseling.

Seek professional help!
Good luck.

[jesus]

jeremy kyle will sort it

[-Dispute]

Ty for all the advice, a few things that may be in the way of some of the advice is that my Dad hates my Mums side of the family, and vice versa..My Mum won't admit she has a problem, she says she does nothing wrong, even though she does. My Dad was like this for years before all this, which is why my Mum drinks because of him. She has depressions and turns to the drink. So althoguh all this advice is great, with my family it will not work..I have tried hiding the drinks, she always finds them...I have even tried drinking as much as I can but tbh I don't want to be like ger and get addicted. I think they need a divorce, but My dad is the only money earner and my Mum won't get a job because of her deppression, so I'd have to live with my Dad, and my Mum will get even worse on her own.