My close friend

[5,5]

I would go over to her house, then if she goes to the bathroom or something. Lock the door to her room and find all her knifes and blades or w/e and bring them home with you and throw them out. And telling her parents would'nt be a bad idea either.

[sarey]

^ ^

Selfharmers always find other ways to do it, if they are that desperate.

[Shawnstra]

Try to ask her whats bothering her, maybe shes under stress, etc.

[Mikkaoz]

Attention seeking, and tell her parents.

The problem is she lives in america, I hardly have any contact with her parents any more.

slap her round the head and tell her to stop being an attention seeking idiot?

Same as above.

Try being their for them, they may feel like they have no one to turn to? Also do tell the parents in confidence to keep an eye on them.

She knows I'm there for her, I'd cut off my right arm for her, she just doesn't want any help. her religion prevents it (Christian Science).

[liquid]

Attention seeking, and tell her parents.

this man speaks the truth ^

[Mikkaoz]

this man speaks the truth ^

Shame she doesn't want to.

[Earthquake]

ask her out

[e5..]

slap her round the head and tell her to stop being an attention seeking idiot?

lol that would make it worse...

I'd tell her parents in confidence, in person aswell...