y do you choose to be gay?

[BlueTango]

Like said above. No-one chooses to be gay. Its just something certain about us in life. Like being a male, having brown hair or liking marmite.

[Virgin Mary]

I think it's more comparable to personality. It can't be changed but you can pretend it is or that it isn't true.

[spot.]

its cos its in fashion mate ye thats the real reason

the hell u on about

[&]

ok so its been proven that people are born straight so the question is why do you choose to be gay?

no it hasnt.
simple

[!!Max!!]

thats like asking someone "why are you black?".

[EverSteve]

is it because:
1)you want to be different
2)you think its in style
3) or do you do it because the opposite sex has been horrible to you

LOL this is the most pathetic post in the world. No you don't just choose one day ILL BE GAY YOU KNOW, its your feelings. I have feelings for lads, and I care for my boyfriend. And how is being gay the Style, if it was the style you wouldn't get beaten up in schools, when you come out.

[spot.]

no it hasnt.
simple

ya it is
ppl arnt born gay

[KrimeScene]

Its not like asking someone WHY ARE YOU BLACK?

That could be taken wrongly, As a racial remark.

Asking someone, Why are you gay, Could also be taken wrongly.

You cant just go up to some black guy and go..

Why where you born black?

But you CAN go up to a black guy and say..

Why Do you CHOOSE to be gay?

There are CHOICES.

[RandomManJay]

No one is born with a true sexuality, no one can be 100% straight or 100% gay, its not possible, its only when you age and are able to experience sexual interation that you are able to choose which you prefer. To add, I would like you see your sources of this hypothesis, I've researched into sexuality and have only found claims of everyone being born gay, and a behaviourist appoach to sexuality

[spot.]

No one is born with a true sexuality, no one can be 100% straight or 100% gay, its not possible, its only when you age and are able to experience sexual interation that you are able to choose which you prefer. To add, I would like you see your sources of this hypothesis, I've researched into sexuality and have only found claims of everyone being born gay, and a behaviourist appoach to sexuality

im a scientist who makes lots of money a year i know about these things