Growing Apart?

[StripedTiger]

I've been told off most of my school mates, some of hers aswell, that I should finish her because she treats me like **** and they don't know why I'm still with her. But I just keep using the excuse that I love her.

Never ever let other people tell you what to do in a friendship or relationship. I'm honestly speaking from experience here and it is the worst thing that can ever happen. If people are telling you to ditch her, ignore them. Don't ever give them the satisfaction of doing that because it can rip your heart apart, send you off the rails and just ruin you inside.

Follow your own heart, your own mind and your own beliefs. If you love her then stay with her. If shes telling you that she loves you and stuff, then she really must mean it. If shes cancelling to go out with her friends, maybe she just wants a small break from you. A lot of girls are like that. It may irritate them being with the same person and conversation may die out a bit and the date / outing will become boring. Don't feel second best cos she goes out with her friends instead, shes allowed to have friends, and remember that

If it gets so much its unbearable, talk about it. Keep the communication open. If you lose her, you may never get her back.

[ChampJames.]

Thats brilliant advice, probably the best I have seen for a while.

She does tell me she loves me, and alot more recently, but she also tells her friends like 'love you' but she always tells me its different sorta love.

[Ugawa]

You seem like a decent boy and you diserve better, maybe you should tell her you want a break, then she might realise what she had now that she's lost it. If she doesn't want you back after then she's not the one for you. Everyone deserves someone that treats them like they are wanted and loved.

Hope this helped

gl

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[ChampJames.]

Thanks,

Things seem to have improved alot recently and one of the things I have noticed, even though this is only small, she has started telling me she loves me, which means alot to me really

Im just going to hope things keep getting better and if I need any advice again, I'll certainly come back here as its been a great help.

Thanks.

[Florx]

People will drift apart but they can also drift together if the right things are said or done!

Happens to me with my mates.

[Muniflex]

Thanks,

Things seem to have improved alot recently and one of the things I have noticed, even though this is only small, she has started telling me she loves me, which means alot to me really

Im just going to hope things keep getting better and if I need any advice again, I'll certainly come back here as its been a great help.

Thanks.

If she really loves you then it isn't small. it may be that, i love you, when you are young and just say it to somebody you like....

Well whatever it means i am glad it is working out and i hope you all the best together

[Metric.]

Bros before ****. You will break up with her and if you push your friends away you will be a loner!!