Does she like me?

[Jamesy]

can't be any worse than my ramble

The major danger is you going out with her, having a shy attack like Ugawa's thread in here somewhere and it all grinding to a halt. This a trap many people fall into, including me.

[348GTS]

I'm with you mate. I've never had a girlfriend either but I flirt with the girl I like occasionally. Improves her mood :p.

Anyway I always go with the philosophy "What's the worst thing that can happen." That is she will say no.

If she thinks she made the wrong decision about saying no she will possibly not talk to you till she gets over it (that has happened twice to me) but at the end of the day if you don't ask you might be missing out!

Bite the bullet and ask. If she says yes you might have months of happiness if no days of regret but you will get over it.

Thanks for reading my ramble :p

Thanks everyone, and I'll ask her probably after the march break or something, but I'll add her on msn and try to talk to her like as much as possible. One big problem for me though is that I kinow like some of her really good friends, and if I suddenly start going out with her without like them knowing they might ask random questions and stuff. and theres always one of them around because she has so many friends, so if I don't know her friends well, and we start just going out we'll probably have like no time just us two.

I guess im fine with her but her friends are nice but i'll just be some random person that starts going out with her.

god, it'd be so much easier if summer was coming up and we could just go alone...

[Jamesy]

That's why you meet out of school, she will obviously have to have some time away from her friends. Person I love is busy, she gets like 5 calls per half hour, but it doesn't stop us having...fun shall I say

[348GTS]

That's why you meet out of school, she will obviously have to have some time away from her friends. Person I love is busy, she gets like 5 calls per half hour, but it doesn't stop us having...fun shall I say

I dont know where we could meet though, she lives like an hour walk from my house, but if I could bike it would be easier.. ****g snow... I could bike anyways though. We could probably go somewhere afterschool too.

Its like in class, when she isn't sitting next to me, should I go see her when shes with her friends? Walk up to her and hold her hands, hug her, or just leave her? In the halls when I see her should I just like talk to her or hold her hand or what?

See if its summer I don't care about this stuff, but in school, its not like what people care about me, its just... I dont want to embarrass her infront of everyone or be too clingy.

[Florx]

First give her a hug but make sure you don't hold on to long. - Hands on her back but don't pat. Hold her close but not too tight (let her breathe lol).

Then when she releases let go. Then smile at her.

Thats basically the first step. Do that a few times (a week not a day).

Step 2: Stand close and see how she reacts. If she moves away slowly you are too close. If not reach for her hand. If she jumps away apologise else just hold her hand and smile (not a big cheesy grin just a reassuring smile).

[Jamesy]

just say hi, smile to her. You don't have to stop and drag her away. Something as simple as a passing smile will let her know you care.

[348GTS]

just say hi, smile to her. You don't have to stop and drag her away. Something as simple as a passing smile will let her know you care.

Okay, thanks.

I'm really considering not asking until like Summer, but its 110 days away, and she probably has camp. I added her on MSN so I'll talk to her A LOT this whole week and if I think she really likes me, I'll ask her this week

TYVM guys.

[Florx]

One more thing...



GOOD LUCK

(You may/will need it. Pfft girls - drive us crazy with or without)

[Jamesy]

One more thing...



GOOD LUCK

(You may/will need it. Pfft girls - drive us crazy with or without)

But if you find that special one, there's nothing better . you may have noticed my good mood lately .

I've loved this girl sicne year 8, went out with her, she dumped me then february the 14th we met up and

[348GTS]

One more thing...



GOOD LUCK

(You may/will need it. Pfft girls - drive us crazy with or without)

ty

But if you find that special one, there's nothing better . you may have noticed my good mood lately .

I've loved this girl sicne year 8, went out with her, she dumped me then february the 14th we met up and

hopefully I'll be in the same situation lol