Advise Needed (+repping)

[Ailo Gaup]

but, just flirt around in jokes.

[today]

Yes you're right Hollywood but I think (in my personal opinion. Not really fact or anything) that those boys are in the early stages of it all and confused about it so they just do it and say they're messing round but are really trying to make themselves positive.

Depending how old they are ;]

but, just flirt around in jokes.

No. Were not all like you. :rolleyes:

[leah]

If he is a really good friend then you could tell him you were gay, but only if you completely trust him. Maybe if he knows your gay, he will be more comfertable maybe if he's in the closet?

[Alexicles.]

Well, if he blatantly starts coming onto you then he may be Bi-Sexual, but as you say he may just be joking around. :S


Hope this helps!

[kerplunkwozere]

YES THAT WILL HELP LOTS WELL DONE

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Please do not post pointlessly.

[leah]

If he is a really good friend then you could tell him you were gay, but only if you completely trust him. Maybe if he knows your gay, he will be more comfertable maybe if he's in the closet?

Pfft you didn't +rep. you Lie.

[Hopeless]

Pfft you didn't +rep. you Lie.

I quoted good advice and i havent look at this thread for a while so calm down, nd its only rep..


Also additional information:

Was at a house party last night and i kissed him on the neck... he did nothing about it he just asked who kissed me, i was with another girl nd i just went me lol... but he didnt go all akward.. just still being mates.. so its really weird :s

Thanks for all advice aswell

[shizzle]

He probably is hiding the gayness wait and see. What kind of stuff is he saying?

[Vegas]

there is a few options u could use,

just go along with it, and see what feels rite.

or come clean, tell him how u feel, if he is a real mate, he will understand and not ditch u, or chuck it back in your face!
You have to be careful how u tell him, and like... how u put it,
not like

*Hey! mate, i love you i think u have been flirting* that may not go down well :p

try summin simple, on your own? like..
" i know i have probs got the wrong idea, but i felt like u flirt with me, and i like u alot ;o"
or summin

[Ardemax]

Try to get really good friend relationship first, then start asking him small ammounts of questions in between regular communication.
Should help you find out