My MUM :@!

[Metric1]

That sucks. I remember when my mom and dad split. It wasn't pretty. When my dad was leaving he forgot his keys to his brand-new Ford Excursion and my mom wouldn't let him back into the house to get the keys so she went and got them. Instead of her just giving him the keys she took the keys and keyed the entire car. But once she did that, she was fine, there were no more arguments or fights.

I know it sucks now, but you'll be ok. You're mom needs you right now, this is no time to lash out and rebel against the situation. Just remember, this is in no way your fault.

[The Professor]

That sucks. I remember when my mom and dad split. It wasn't pretty. When my dad was leaving he forgot his keys to his brand-new Ford Excursion and my mom wouldn't let him back into the house to get the keys so she went and got them. Instead of her just giving him the keys she took the keys and keyed the entire car. But once she did that, she was fine, there were no more arguments or fights.

I know it sucks now, but you'll be ok. You're mom needs you right now, this is no time to lash out and rebel against the situation. Just remember, this is in no way your fault.

Wise words.

In all honesty, when your parents break up is probably the worst you'll feel for years and years. In my case, it was over 5 years until anything came close. During this time, you'll probably feel every emotion under the sun towards your parents; one minute you'll be happy they're apart and can be happy, the next you'll hate them for screwing up your life. And there isn't a lot you can do at the minute. The only thing that's going to make you feel any better is time, so try and get on with things as normal as best as possible and try not to irritate your mum too much, no matter how difficult it is. If/when they start rowing again, just step out the way and let them get on with it, put your mp3 player on loud to drown it out or something. It'll all pass soon enough

[leah]

Basically, She's Jealous.
I think she needs a mna of her own
She may still have feelings for your dad, obviously she would 17 years is quite a long time, but she may not be in love with him.
She should get used to it after time, but you should tell him not to mention his gf infront of her for a while, and also tell your mum she needs to let him be, although she directs her anger at you, you should still be there for you, maybe she needs to lash out, and then she'll get over it?

[Catzsy]

I do not think if you tried you could even imagine how hurt and betrayed your Mum must feel. She is not going to act normally under the amount of pressure she is under at the moment and I expect she will act out of charactor for a while. Just give her some slack and try to be as supportive as possible at the moment as she must be devastated and heart broken.

[Teyauna.]

I think she may have a little jealousy issues. Maybe she didn't want it to end.

[Bef]

Shes prob not jelous. Shes prob tamping! If a bloke left me after 17 years for another women i would be tearing his balls off and feeding them to his new misses

[:Edzy]

Wise words.

In all honesty, when your parents break up is probably the worst you'll feel for years and years. In my case, it was over 5 years until anything came close. During this time, you'll probably feel every emotion under the sun towards your parents; one minute you'll be happy they're apart and can be happy, the next you'll hate them for screwing up your life. And there isn't a lot you can do at the minute. The only thing that's going to make you feel any better is time, so try and get on with things as normal as best as possible and try not to irritate your mum too much, no matter how difficult it is. If/when they start rowing again, just step out the way and let them get on with it, put your mp3 player on loud to drown it out or something. It'll all pass soon enough

See, i disagree. it would have been fine for me if my mum didnt get so upset and after 4 years, she still shouts at him in the street if he drops us off etc. (so embarising) but it will die down.. might take a while. but yeah Alex's Advice is v good

[Jamieb]

Thanks for all your help Ill get around Repping you all ..


Thanks Jamieb

[Metric1]

My mom never dragged us through her divorce, not ONCE. Sure we were poor afterwards, but she would give-up anything for us to be happy, even if it ment that she wasn't. I love my mom.

[BowTies1]

My mom never dragged us through her divorce, not ONCE. Sure we were poor afterwards, but she would give-up anything for us to be happy, even if it ment that she wasn't. I love my mom.

that was the nicest comment ever