Mum..

[TidgyPie]

Ok, So you could see an online councellor im sure there is some around, or you could tell one of your closet friends and tell them to promise not to tell anyone, i suggest someone the same gender as you as they will understand more personal things. I also think that you could tell your mum to give you a bit of space, ya'no? Or why dont you take a break for a week to a friends house / family members house, and just have a break.

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[e5]

Sometimes, talking to someone and then crying infront of them can persuade them to want help you. You don't usually cry for no reason, you do it because you have to and can't help it, and it gets whats inside you out. Try find somone you can trust. I totally agree with Catzsy also. If your mum continues to do this, maybe give her the taste of her own medicine.

[Catzsy]

Its sounds almost like the roles have been reversed and you are the sensible one and she is acting like the child. She sounds emotionally wrecked but she needs to put you first and somebody should tell her that. Perhaps you could approach the family doctor because what you say is confidential to them?

Anyway I remembered Ostinato had a list of sites and this is one that you may like to look at.
http://www.youth2youth.co.uk/index.htm

[kerplunkwozere]

You need to speak to someone about this. Its not right for you to be treated so negatively all the time. Is there a aunty or Gran you can speak to. If there is there anybody else you can trust - a teacher maybe? I feel for you it must be terrible. People do act like this when they are depressed but you shouldn't have to suffer for it You are wanted by your friends at Habbox though, Lizzie.

because that makes everything better
LOL.

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[Catzsy]

because that makes everything better
LOL.

Was that meant to be sarky? If so please remember that the people on this forum are real and have real feelings. Thanks

[Yoshimitsui]

Just by reading how upset you are by what is happening to you the first thing i think you should consider is to talk to someone whos closest to you or someone who is uderstanding.

If not then as allready advised, keeping it squeezed up inside you will really brake you down and at important times like these you can't afford to feel so horrible.

It may be that your mum does suffer from something that you and her may not be aware of, it may not be the case but you just never know. I don't wish to put bad thoughts into your head or make random sugestions. But really do talk to someone.

[-Undiscovered]

A close friend knows the basics, not how my Mum is with me, but about all the family problems we have, there's no teacher at school who i conect with, i don't feel i can turn to any of them, my mum has weekly counsiling for her depression, but all she does is lie so i don't see the point. If i say, why lie, she says " want me to tell the truth about such a wounderful daughter i got" obvi in a sarcastic way.

But yeah, thankyou to all who answered, i guess it helped typing it all out just to let it out.

[Dusty-09]

I feel so sad for you, you could call childline or you should just talk to someone you trust and know a teacher would be a good option and just tell him/her that puts you down and then they should be able to sort it out, usually when this happens a social worker comes to your house to help both of you bond so try and do it even if you breakdown it still will help your future

[blackops121]

You Should go speak to someone about this, family anyone you can trust and even a teacher, but dont worry, but if u dont go to someone this may get worse into physical abuse (if it has not already) just phone childline they will sort it out and let you go with your dad?

[leah]

My mum is exactly the same,
she always argues with my dad for no reason
and always seems to want to start an arguement with me..
also, she is really unfair and treats my brother and sister way beter than me tbh, its so annoying =/
I don't know what you could do, perhaps tell her what a *REMOVED* she is and hope it makes her see sense?
If not tell on her lol

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