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My advice is....You're young....Don't worry about relationships...They're nothing but hassle! Live your life, Have fun...and when the right person comes along you'll know about it.....But for now enjoy single life!

damn straight!

Get her drunk and sleep with her

That is the best advice ever.

Also, I kinda get freaked out by our similarities...

I picked the same GCSE's as her without knowing, we say the same thing at the same time by accident a lot, she likes all my bands

Yet does not want any sort of relation

¯\_(O_o)_/¯

[FlyingJesus]

Are you ugly? Not being offensive or anything but if you are then that would probably be why she doesn't want relations with you init

[le harry]

Are you ugly? Not being offensive or anything but if you are then that would probably be why she doesn't want relations with you init

Yeah, being ugly sucks TOM.

[666101]

Don't rush in just because he/she is hot, and or very attractive.

It won't work. Don't date after a week, get to know them, and by that I mean friends.. best friends.

It gives you a better chance at making it work, if you know he/she is right for you, and your personalities are alike.

If you thought about what you were saying, you would hear the quote any self respecting boy doesn't want to hear "Please can we just stay as friends.." Theres a huge difference between being best friends g/b wise, and being girlfriend and boyfriend.

[FlyingJesus]

Yeah, being ugly sucks TOM.

I really feel for you

[RedStratocas]

Don't rush in just because he/she is hot, and or very attractive.

It won't work. Don't date after a week, get to know them, and by that I mean friends.. best friends.

It gives you a better chance at making it work, if you know he/she is right for you, and your personalities are alike.

i disagree. relationships don't always have to work. i mean, you don't have anything to lose. what do you lose from dating someone and it not working out? i'm not advocating being too promiscuous, but kids, especially in high school and college should be very casual daters. if you're dating someone for less than a month and realize it won't work, then break up. its no big deal. at this age, people should be trying to find out what they like and dislike, and the best way to do that is with first-hand experience. if you like someone, even if you do have doubts on whether it will work long-term, go for it anyway. try new things because you never know. i'm in psychology, and my teacher explained it way better than i did, but it made sense. a person who has dated a decent amount of people in their teenage years is way better at detecting who is a good match for them in the future than someone who rarely dated.

and @ the whole "don't date after a week" thing: i started dating my current girlfriend two days after meeting her, and we've been together for 7 months. people need to stop taking dating so seriously. it should be way more casual, people shouldn't be frowned upon for having short relationships or dating a lot of people, it sends the wrong message.

[Pyroka]

The problem is, if you're too similar then it could well wreck your friendship. Relationships aint everything, god I wish I could have a friendship with a girl without fancying them after 2 weeks, it does my head in.

Just take your time dude, seriously. If she doesn't want a relationship, you should be happy you have such a good friend.

[leah]

Just get to know someone you like,
meet up with them a few times,
and making someone laugh is always good.

[e5]

DON'T BECOME BEST FRIENDS WITH HER!!

If you do, when the time comes for you to ask her out, she may say that she'd rather be just friends.

I've know a girl, i'm best mates with her. We don't go out with it wouldn't work as we'd lose that friendship. I'd rather not go out because if we broke up, which we would, in time, we wouldn't have that friendship anymore I think being close friends is better, we still hold hands and stuff and talk alot, just don't go out.