Do you rebound?

[Imnotpure]

I never have, but it depends how the relationship ended. For example if you break up and rebound a few days later I personally think it's stupid and mean, but if you're relationship has ended on bad terms and you're ex was the one in the wrong, alot of people can end up rebounding due to the comforting side of people. I couldnt really rebound anyway, i'm not gonig to be over my relationship so quick.

[kuzkasate]

Well whenever I've broken up with people (rather than being broken up with) it's been because I'm bored of them and there's someone else I wanna get with so yeah I guess

exactly

[Cyndia]

Oh man, I definitely rebound. I've dated 5 guys total, and 1 and 3 were guys I really liked and both lasted about 6 months and didn't end by my choice (1st one ended up going to college and I wanted to try a distance relationship and he didn't, guy 3 met someone else and lost interest in me) so I said yes to the first guys that asked me out after that. Both times it was about 3 weeks afterwards, and both times the relationship didn't last more than a month and I was the one that ended it since the guys were totally not what I wanted. On the plus side, though it still took me a little while to get over guys 1 and 3, the rebounds helped a bunch! For the majority of the relationship I was just comparing them to the guys I'd dated right before and had legitimately liked, but by the time the rebound relationships ended I was more wrapped up in how annoyed and frustrated I was by them and it helped me loads with getting over the guys before. It still took a while though, and I didn't move on to a new guy after each rebound for a few months.