Dear Deidre - Ends 22nd February

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Habbo Name: Simplux
Habbox Name: -Unlimited
My entry: Hi, i have read throught your problem and i want to say that you should not care about what people say. It may upset you making you feel diffrent however your not. You are better then the people bully you. I would recommend that you do not stop talking around others and be proud to have your voice because that makes you the person you are.

[Retux.]

Habbox name Retux.
Habbo .co.uk name Retux,

hey
i started puberty wen i was 12

and my voice was all messed up :s
i went throught the same thing as u did
look i just ignored em
im a prtty good fighter and got into a fight over it
of course i won and they ignored me then and left me alone
look im not saying go and beat everone up
but what i am saying isu can either do these helpfull things..
1.) Tell a freind/teacher/family of wats happening
2.) Tell the bully's u dnt like wats happening and ask them if they could stop
3.) ignore them
4.) get a friend to sort em out Xd
5 there are quit a few bullying site (anti) that help u with advice id say u try searching into google for the best answers
but i really segest , that u use my 1st or 2nd tip
there the bets and the 1st i told a teacher and he had a word with the 3 bullys and they neva sed a word exept soory m8 we were just joking ;]

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[Ardemax]

Habbo name: Ardemax
Habbox name: Ardemax
Entry:
I hear you buddy, and I'm gonna help you out!
Firstly, before I begin my response, I'd like to point out that EVERYONE will go through this stage, it just happens at different times, so when you are speaking in the same pitch they'll be the ones laughed at (hopefully not by you!).
This is said over and over again but it needs to be done, tell somebody. Don't keep it bottled up any longer. Tell the person you are most comfortable with telling and speak the truth, nothing can go wrong.
If they speak to you, simply walk away, it's the easiest thing.
All you need to worry about it how silly they'll look when their voice is a bit weird!
It won't be long before you're back up to normal, so don't fret.
Regards,
Ardemax

[lilmissjess12]

Habbo Nameilmissjess12
Habbox Nameilmissjess12
My Entry:
I Have read your letter.it happen to everyone they gone throu it but u havent delieved proply yet and im sure u will soon. just ignore them. things in your life at this age will change alot dont be afriad or worried it called being a teenager.

P.S when they pointing they finger at you they point three back at them (try it now)

[Rock]

Habbox Name: Rockboy03
Habbo Name: PureEv1l
Entry:


Hi mate. I have read your letter and I completely understand. Its all a part of growing up!

If you are being bullied, tell a friend, tell a teacher and tell your parents. It won't stop unless you do. It can be hard to do this so if you don't feel you can do it in person it might be easier to write a note to your parents explaining how you feel, or perhaps confide in someone outside the immediate family, like a grandparent, aunt, uncle or cousin and ask them to help you tell your parents what's going on.

Your form tutor needs to know what is going on so try to find a time to tell him/her when it won't be noticeable. You could stay behind on the pretext of needing help with some work. If you don't feel you can do that, then go to the medical room and speak to the school nurse.

You say you are not a fighter. You do not need to be. The best idea is if a teacher can catch the bullies red-handed. That way, you won't get into bother from anyone for telling tales. It will be clear to everyone what has been going on. Don't be tempted to hit back because you could get hurt or get into trouble. Hitting someone is an assault.

Do not worry about your voice. It will get much better soon. Its all the hormones in your body =]

I believe you can overcome this,
Diedre.

[Mezzy-xo]

Habbo Name: Mezzy-xo
Habbox Name: Mezzy-xo
My entry:
Hi, i have read your letter and i feel very sorry that you get bullied for this reason. The thing is with bullies, they can always find something to pick on someone for, whether its someones looks, style, personality, voice, hair etc. Mainly the bullies just look for things to pick on. What you need to remember is that everybody is different in their own way, and thats why some people get bullied, because they are different. But people need to see that being individual is a good thing, & being the same as someone or something is not. Atleast you are not trying to put on a different voice to be the same, your voice is what makes you, well - you. There is nothing wrong with how your voice is, and everyones voice will probably do this at one point. Like getting spots, everyone is bound to get them, but when they don't they decide to pick on other people for having them. Just ignore the bullies as much as you can and if they say things then think to yourself, 'my voice is what makes me, me.'
I hope this helped.

[Mizcalifornia]

Habbo Name: Mizcalifornia
Habbox Name: Mizcalifornia
My entry:

Hey, thanks for your letter.
This happens to alot of guys your age, but the good news is you will grow out of it. The best advice I can give you is to just have fun, enjoy your time at school. If you stuff up a few words just laugh about it.
You are who you are, and you should love who you are.

From yours truely
Deidre

[kirkland7]

habbox name:kirkland7
habbo name:kirkland

i read this letter and the best thing to do for you high pitch is to ignore the bullies if you dont they will keep going on at you because they no you are affected so theykeep going and going so keep out of there way and carry on geting your good education.anymore problems send another letter pal.good luck.

yours best,
kirkland7.

[sheldean]

Habbo Name: sheldean
Habbox Name: sheldean
My entry:

I could go on in a soppy way about how you should ignore your bullies, but to be honest, it never really works. Thats the point of bullies - to make you unhappy and your silence will only fuel. Im not saying being ruse is the answer though. What you should do is be nice to them. Thats right, they say some rude, you smile and say Im sorry if you fell that way, then you turn around adn walk away. That way, u havent been rude, theyve been baffled, and everyone thinks "what a stallion". ur voice then becomes cool, and u get lots of gals.

[SugaSweet123]

Habbox Name - SugaSweet123
Habbo Name - Candy.Babe-x
My Entry -
Hi,
I have read your letter and offer you the best advice I can. The change in pitch of your voice is normal for boys of your age, my brother went through the same when he was 15-16. Bullies often feel insecure about themselves, so they bully other people to make themselves feel better. I suggest that you talk to someone you trust, like your parents or a teacher, or even a local police officer. Don't let the bullies get you down, be proud of who you are. The worst thing you could do is bite back, that could start a fight and end up getting you into trouble. If your to scared to tell someone you know, try ringing childline or a different childrens helpline. They will offer the best advice they can to help you.

I know you can get through this,
Diedre.