defo use the money thing to ur advantage. this is similer to the situaton i think it was u i was tellin bout. cept my blokey hasnt ever come out as gay i just assumed he was haha.
im just ignoring mine now as hes got overly odd.
it sounds to me like he defo likes u bt hes prob really confused. u need to make it clear to him u dont want anything, just be like. "I like my men big and strong and MANISH not queer little poofs" just in general conversation so he nose hes got no chance