Current situation :/

[Rapidshare]

If I can be quite frank i think you shouldn't enter in a relationship with H if you're still crushing on J and I think that it's a bit jerk-like if you do go ahead and do that because that is unfair on H that you'd be willing to drop her when J became single. In all honesty I think you need to get over J before you ask anyone else out because it would be unfair.

She knows what she talking about

[leah]

Well, I keep thinking about this girl called... we'll call her H, and like I just think of going out with her taking her out and treating her right, but I dont know how she feels about me, so I dont wanna make a *** of myself. But around school/around me she has the daily chat, with me, like not many other girls do that I guess, and she looks at me really nicely, I can't describe it, this could be obvious but if you were me, you'd be stuck too. But theres also this other girl... J? J is exactly what I look for in a girlfriend she likes everything I like and it's perfect. I've already been out with her twice, but I had to dump her due to depression. Now shes going out with this guy, it's pretty serious and I hope them all the best, but, I dont exactly wanna go out with this other brilliant girl, because I know that if J does become single again, I'd most definatley ask her out in a second. But I cant wait for her so should I just try and see how it goes with H?

Advice?

See how it goes with H Dave, you're still young and maybe you'll like her more than J

H everytime, I know H has feelings for you, unsurprisingly as you are irresistible.

you make me laugh

dont treat her right lol thats a crap idea punch her tooth or something they like it and if you are nice they just think you sweet and stuff so nah

are you serious lmao

[Catchy]

They'll be plenty more girls where they came from!

[iDenning]

Go out with J, and when H comes single, make her chase you. Otherwise she will take you for a ride and think your easy.

[Yoshimitsui]

I think you need to think about who you actually like the most and sum it up that way, and not in a respect of just getting one of them. By bringing it down to having one or the other you are complicating the situation and playing on emotions! That's when it goes bad for one or the other.

You need to think about it within yourself and decide who you like and play it by there. Above that i would say give it a go with H if you are confident with how much you like her and that if you where to get into a relationship and J becomes single it will be bad to start having mixed feelings. So think about what you want most.