Classic scenario -- what does one do?

[Fez]

Get in there slowly, never rush anything or you could blow the friendship itself.

[leah]

Just flirt with her until she gets it, if she flirts back she likes you, if she backs off she doesn't.

[SugarPlum.]

Get someone, to "accidentally" link her to this thread, thus her knowing how you feelin, thenn you can talk it off

[Sly]

Get a friend to let her know how you feel then deny it if neccessary

[Ali]

Ok, I'm not being rude but I doubt you love her and I wouldn't get yourself thinking thats true because you might push her away - a good friend - by being overeager.
Just play the field and see how to reacts around you for the next few days. I'm sure you're intelligent and you will read the signs

[Chaos]

Okay, lets sort things out. I'm really good friends with this girl at my school -- I'm the only guy in school, she calls a friend. She does have another guy she is better friends with, a friend from primary school.

Thing is I really really love her so much, I don't know if she likes me back. I mean, I've tried my personality but we're just better friends ever since I dropped my dull, depressing personality. I used to be very fat, I used to be about 15st6lbs, at 5'11. I'm now 11st 11lbs and 6ft., and I've been losing weight because I think that may be in the way. I've tried everything about my appearance, and I'm thinking of asking her out soon.

I'm just wanting to know, how can I get closer to her?

(PS. I opened a door of my sisters car on tuesday to get out, and a taxi took it off. Embarrassing and sad? Especially when this girl was sitting with me in the back.)

wot? how old are you.
If she is better friends with someone at a different school and at that a primary school that makes you like 11 an you already think your in love?

[Nicola]

wot? how old are you.
If she is better friends with someone at a different school and at that a primary school that makes you like 11 an you already think your in love?

Oh i thought he meant a friend that went to her primary school ages ago or something?
No idea
But yeah don't go straight in for it, give it some more time. Just casually flirt with her and see if she flirts back.

[Chaos]

Oh i thought he meant a friend that went to her primary school ages ago or something?
No idea
But yeah don't go straight in for it, give it some more time. Just casually flirt with her and see if she flirts back.

OHHHHHHHH i get it now.

[Flicker]

haha, I'm not in primary school, I'm in year 11 and I'm 16.

I really do love her, it's not just a 'fancy' or 'crush' I honestly want to be there for her.

I care a lot about her, she has cystic fibrosis so whenever she gets ill I always phone and see how she is and I worry a lot, I spend time with her and I just want to be with her.