Why can we not go out??

[Mentor]

The friend zone is a myth, relationships commonly stem from friendships.
What you have to remember is the "i dont want to risk are friendship" thing, isnt about risking a friendship at all. Its just a method of saying there not interested in you,relationship wize, without hurting your feelings.

Just because you like her that way, doesn't mean she feels the same about you. So your best bets just to move on, as it doesn't sound like theres anything there. I one sided relationship would be doomed to fail anyway.

[Jam]

Heh, you can still be friends afterwards, two out of three times that has been the case for me, even if I do still love one of them.

[Ryan498]

hey, well we got annyoeyd with each other and were okay now

but she i now goin out with one of my friends and i doesnt feel right, they do hide the fact when they are out with me and my other friends that they are not actully meetin each other, but i know they are.

She knows its killing me inside and she offered to break up with my friend to save our friendship and not to hurt me anymore, but i said no because i dont want her or my friend being sad and upset, if i know she cant be happy with me then i want her to be happy with somone else =/

i just wish there are other girls who like me for who i am, im a nice, caring person and wudnt ever dream of hurting anyone. im not exactly good luckjing, but my friends and others say that girls dont go for the looks they go for the person inside instead and thats what matters, unless they were just saying that to try and make feel better. =/

[FlyingJesus]

in the friend zone. nobody gets out of the friend zone, sorry.

I do

I just wish there could be somthing i could do

Get her drunk

Oh no! i've failed. I said to her ""I got sommot to tell you, i love you"

She says she only wants to be friends because she doesnt feel like that to me, and i've made her feel bad, although were mates she knows that im hurt because she said no to me, i said it dont matter, i'll be friend if you want, i dont mind.

But she says were still friends now, but to me it doesnt feel like it, she never put kisses or huggs at the end of her texts and msn convos anymore, and doesnt want to come outside with me and her anymore on our own, shed rather go in a group instead. I've totally messed this one up.

Ok yeah you've messed up now. If they aren't interested in a relationship you don't go around acting like a boyfriend anyway, they'll get weirded out and you lose them entirely. If she won't see you alone any more it's gonna be difficult getting things back to how they were

The friend zone is a myth, relationships commonly stem from friendships.
What you have to remember is the "i dont want to risk are friendship" thing, isnt about risking a friendship at all. Its just a method of saying there not interested in you,relationship wize, without hurting your feelings.

Just because you like her that way, doesn't mean she feels the same about you. So your best bets just to move on, as it doesn't sound like theres anything there. I one sided relationship would be doomed to fail anyway.

Listen to this man he's quite often right about stuff, doubly so when he agrees with me. The way I see it this can go 3 ways:

1) You freak out and either get angry or possessive or just entirely whacked out on her, and she then doesn't want to see you any more.

2) You get her drunk and get with her, fun times all round then either she'll think it's the worst mistake she ever made or will think it's the best thing in the world and won't leave your groin alone for a long time.

3) You get with someone else and just get on with it, because if she sees this (not too soon, mind) then she'll either think you've moved on fine and will be a friend again or she'll get jealous and try it on with you, win win either way.

[buttons]

im not exactly good luckjing,

assuming you mean good looking then that's your answer so yeah follow tom's advice and get her drunk

[Lindsey]

Hmm, maybe she has her mind set on something else :S atm, just stay in the friend zone for abit,

[Lindsey]

If she classified you as walking her down, means she really likes you... just make a promise that if yu two do ever break up. that both of you will stay mates... i have loads of ex's that im friends now,. ;] mmmm.. thats all i can really say, have fun wil her ;]