Have you ever been in love?

[Immenseman]

how do you know oli?! define love for me... i defo haven't ever been in love, not even close. obviously i love my family but you get me. a lot of my buddiez have been like "im in love" and then they realise they're not lol

[Abbie.]

yes with my boyfriend i know its love because he means everything to me!

[Immenseman]

would you die for him

[Abbie.]

not that id ever have too.. but yea i suppose?

[Immenseman]

i know, just testing ;l adorable. I WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE lol

[Hecktix]

how do you know oli?! define love for me... i defo haven't ever been in love, not even close. obviously i love my family but you get me. a lot of my buddiez have been like "im in love" and then they realise they're not lol

I always see love as feelings towards people you like in any manner, you can love someone but in different ways, obviously.

But here we are talking about being in love, the girl I was completely in love with I fell for a longggg time before we got together, we never really realised what it was, we just had a mutual care for eachother to start with which became quite developed when we both helped eachother through very hard situations. I had quite a dramatic break up in July 2008 and this girl was there for me then, I was an absolute mess but she'd text me every day asking me how I was etc, just being a good friend, then we fell for eachother in the "lust" sort of way, she was always an attractive girl but Id been with my girlfriend for over a year but after she helped me through that we became very attracted to eachother and one thing led to another, we were only together 5 months when in the end we both made silly mistakes.

One of my strongest beliefs about love is that you never truly fall out of it, this particular girl ended up turning her back on me for a few months and it absolutely killed me. It did us good though because we had started arguing a lot and stuff and forgotten about our feelings really. Some of the stuff she did was pretty harsh and all my friends hate the fact I talk to her again, but I'd still do pretty much anything for that girl & she'd still do pretty much anything for me, if we can get through what happened (which I won't divulge) and still care for eachother after it as much as we cared going into it (just without all the other feelings a relationship requires), I think that one could say we were in love at our peak.

[FlyingJesus]

When you're in a relationship it's easy to think you are, and if you're lucky that feeling stays and all goes well etc etc but I think the real test is if you do break up how you look back at it (not right away of course, after time). I'd say I'm lucky enough to have experienced what I'd call true love and I still believe that's what it was 3 years after.. damn I'm old lol.. but it really was just the once. Been others who I thought I loved and maybe did but wasn't really in love with, which is a massive difference even if it is only one you can see with hindsight

[Sammeth.]

I think I've been in love. Only once, but then again I've only ever had one serious relationship, and one boyfriend. He meant the world to me and I literally couldn't envision what life would be without him in the future. I felt utterly devoted to him, and I think I probably would have done anything for him. But still, I think when we broke up was the true testament to what I think is love. Six months down the line I'm still not over him, and I do really miss him pretty much everyday. But it just wasn't meant to be. One day I'lll get over it innit.

I'm sickened with lonliness right now, and currently I love someone, or really I love my vision of who someone is, which is a complete different scenario to true love. This is like highschool crush love, and just being doteful (if thats even a word) on my own imagination, rather than someones actual demeanour (IDC ABOUT SPELLING)

On top of that, love is gay.

[Pyroka]

I don't think I've ever been truly in love with someone, probably just infatuation, I mean idk. As ppl say they look back and see it's not love, is it us decieving ourselves into thinking we are?

Goes all inteldcgual *+*+* haha ghat failed

[TheEclipse]

I am now. I feel happy and safe around him. I love being with him, he's attractive, and I can see myself being with him for the future. He's not perfect but I still like him.

I've been in love before but it was unhealthy, I had all the above but I was also very unhappy about the situation and also rather obsessive. Obsession, constantly thinking about a person, does not mean you are in love.