
Okay no need to have a dig at me :S But still some people don't have the guts to say no if they don't wanna hurt someone, so I just wait till they dump me? I'd rather hurt than hurt other people.
If you say yes to someone you are giving them a illusion of you liking them, when in fact the feelings they show you (which you probs return to be nice) makes them happy and they will be more hurt when they have to dump you because you stop showing your "affection" and stuff.
I wasn't digging i was just relating to what you said.
forever the queen.
What people don't know don't hurt them? And if it's not working out and they dump me, then I'm fine with it, and I can put on the nice act and make them feel fine about dumping me. And I don't stop showing my affection, I'm still nice to them and still wanna be friends? I'm not sour after being dumped and don't want to be friends? Because tbh that's all I treat dating as in UK dating terms, and if i'm serious about someone I'll adopt the US dating technique.If you say yes to someone you are giving them a illusion of you liking them, when in fact the feelings they show you (which you probs return to be nice) makes them happy and they will be more hurt when they have to dump you because you stop showing your "affection" and stuff.
I wasn't digging i was just relating to what you said.
I'm like this, I may as well tell you all I used to e-datein my noobish days, but since I've started college I've taken over a new leaf.
Anyway, in November-December 2009, I e-dated someone most people will probably know, called Matt/Laggings(real name, cos tbh I don't care if everyone knows) and then he cheated on me online, with my sister irl. I was like wtf. I didn't really feel so much heartbreak as I was looking for new love anyway, and eventually I got it. But, as I wanted to be honest in the new found relationship, I told him what had happened, and that I e-dated Matt, I told him this on Christmas day. Just after I got hacked on Habbo, and with Matt dumping me on Christmas Eve I felt it was the right thing to do, then the other one, dumped me on Christmas day - that hurt.
On the other hand, my real life relationships, have been quite better, and I knew the people who I dated loved me back so much it was un believable.
Firstly, there was a boy, who always got bullied, for the little things, and I thought it wasn't fair, we had known each other for four years and by the next Monday, we were dating, I can remember about 50 people asking me if I was dating him that day, and because we were in the same Form class, it was hard to get away from it, I remember someone asking "Charlie, do you love Samantha?" His reply 'Yes' which I found so sweet.
Charlie* is not his real name.
However, that breaktime, some boys were digging into him, beating him up because he wouldn't kiss me, he mannaged a kiss on my cheek but that's all I wasn't letting him go further. This next bit will make me sound the biggest user of all. I could see he was crying, I dumped him that night, I was thinking about him, didn't want him to hurt anymore, but some how we went out again. Lasted a while, but then I dumped him after about a week, he then crapped himself apparently.
However, as he was my first boyfriend, would never dream of cheating on him.
Last edited by Samantha; 30-09-2010 at 07:11 AM.
Didn't we do this last month?
Milky (U)
That's a no then lol
Yeah I'm like that, just get bored of people too quick
And yeah cheated been cheated on been the mistress and all sorts, it's all fun
LOL! Yeah i've cheated on girls before.I'm like this, I may as well tell you all I used to e-datein my noobish days, but since I've started college I've taken over a new leaf.
Anyway, in November-December 2009, I e-dated someone most people will probably know, called Matt/Laggings(real name, cos tbh I don't care if everyone knows) and then he cheated on me online, with my sister irl. I was like wtf. [/I]
I have done, not as though I am proud of it though I tell you that. I was with my ex (faithfull in my current relationship, but if you saw my gf you'd see why) for a year and a half, and about 4/5 months into our relationship I went out one Friday or Saturday, smashed out off my head and slept with someone, (I did stop and walk away if it helps, so we were only having sex for about 10 minutes). I felt physically sick for a good week or so though I tell you.
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