age gaps in relationships

[Callum.]

Age gaps are nothing, that is nothing. But I'd rather have fun than than go 9 years older.

[FlyingJesus]

If he fulfills your needs then what's the problem it's not like you're a little kid getting groomed

[buttons]

If I'm honest I do think it sounds a little odd. The age gap you have is the same age gap I have with my english teacher, even though she's pretty fit it would feel crazy to have a relationship with her. But since you are getting on for 2 years older than me (I'm 16 in Jan) I guess it makes things a lot different, almost to the point that you could have a relationship with someone of any age within reason. I guess the bottom line is, if you are both happy together and find each other attractive then that's all that matters and why let numbers get in-between that?

And I just have to ask; is he Asian?

well im nearly 18 and he's newly 26
i like how he has his career + everything on the go, no past children (thank god) it's just he's old enough to settle down and i don't plan to for like 6/7 years so he'll be like 32/33.... lol
THINKING 2 MUCH IN TO THE FUTURE I KNOW
it'll probably never work out
ahh what a problem. i'm just too mature for my age ofc.

also he's half white half asian. his mums half thai, half chinese so i guess he'd be quarter of those 2? not sure bout his dad but he's white anyway lol

Age gaps are nothing, that is nothing. But I'd rather have fun than than go 9 years older.

i've had all my "fun"
& he's loads of fun too, kinda like having an older brother again. idk if that's weird or what or if it's a phase. i always said i want sum1 like my oldest brother (im not incest, educate yourself before u make stupid statements - not aimed at you)

the problem, tom, is he's old enough to settle down n **** n i aint gon be ready for at least 5 year. SO IDK IF ITS WORTH IT. ;_; i find smth gd but there's always a problem SRSLY

[immense]

its different when its younger teens because they're not fully developed. anyway, you're 19 next year o) so i don't think it's that bad. not like you're a child anyway.

[Conservative,]

In my opinion as long as your not dating someone a lot older or younger a
Few years is fine. As i said in another thread i like a girl 2 years younger. Some would call me a pedo but if she likes me az well there's nothing wrong...

Basically as long as both consent and like each other ect and the age gap isn't huge i don't see the
Problem.

[wixard]

you're probably way more mature than i am, but since i was 16 i've really liked one of the barmen i work with who's 7 years older than me
and we get along great, like probably better than any other guy i speak with but it's obvious we both are constantly thinking of the age gap and how we're in two completely different stages of life

you haven't even gone to uni yet, i dunno i just think it's a bad idea. saying that me and my guy never passed our friendship stage but still

[FlyingJesus]

the problem, tom, is he's old enough to settle down n **** n i aint gon be ready for at least 5 year. SO IDK IF ITS WORTH IT. ;_; i find smth gd but there's always a problem SRSLY

Well being old enough doesn't mean that's what he's looking to do especially if he's flinging appendages up a 17 year old, you should probably find out if that's even what he wants before worrying about it

[buttons]

its different when its younger teens because they're not fully developed. anyway, you're 19 next year o) so i don't think it's that bad. not like you're a child anyway.

yeah i forget i'm an ADULT i can make my own decisions

you're probably way more mature than i am, but since i was 16 i've really liked one of the barmen i work with who's 7 years older than me
and we get along great, like probably better than any other guy i speak with but it's obvious we both are constantly thinking of the age gap and how we're in two completely different stages of life

you haven't even gone to uni yet, i dunno i just think it's a bad idea. saying that me and my guy never passed our friendship stage but still

woo h5
im on my 2nd year at college, got this year + next before uni (next year in college is equivalent to 1st year uni, so i'd be going straight in to my 2nd year) & i'll be 19 coming on 20 then, not a problem atm (he lives same town as my college is). i don't plan moving anywhere till then. sorry if that makes no sense, shattered >.> we might not even talk to each other by then.....
college atm doesn't get in the way of us

Well being old enough doesn't mean that's what he's looking to do especially if he's flinging appendages up a 17 year old, you should probably find out if that's even what he wants before worrying about it

oh yeah, was only thinking of myself there ;l

[Pyroka]

age gaps are nothing these days.

everytime i feel down im gonna look at this post and think

SCORE.

ONTOPIC jen u no i dont care about age gaps that much i mean my parents have a 10 yr age gap between them, maybe a bit more... but yeah. i dont care, live and let live is all i say, but if theyre not legal then i mean you gotta at least watch your step yknow.

[FlyingJesus]

college atm doesn't get in the way of us

He's not your tutor is he