ending of relationships

[Nemo]

Id just literally tell myself to get over it until i did. Everytime i thought about em, itd just be a "get over it" or tried to talk to them "get over it" etc. etc.

Atleast thats what ive found, although dont know how itd work if i was in a proper serious relationship, since ive never been in 1 but the idea's there!

[SirTezza]

I would say that the best help is nothing special. The best help comes from a friend telling you they are there for you, and telling you they will always support you no matter what issues come up. When you have just split from a relationship it can become a grieving process, especially if it was a long term relationship. Since we are on a forum and not real friends there isn't much we can do to console you, perhaps speak with your real life friends.

Other than that though, there is always going to be a time in your life, numerous times when you will feel like this about a person you have split up from. Think of it as the next stage in your life. You have been with this person, you have loved them and laughed with them but now it's finished, and now you have to find the next person that will make you happy.

If you want to be happy, then don't dwell on what has already passed. You can be happy again, you just have to let go and find that next special person.

[immense]

i think if someone said it'll be alright i'd just cry until next year or something

[SirTezza]

i think if someone said it'll be alright i'd just cry until next year or something

There is nothing wrong with crying. Crying is a natural process for human beings. It releases built up pressure and stress inside the body. So having a good cry releases all of that, and eventually you feel better. I don't subscribe to the notion that men shouldn't cry, because if humans didn't cry, we would die, because tears build up inside us.

If you want to cry, do it, you will feel better. Once you have cried you can begin to heal.

[Jam]

Think how meaningless the moment will be in 10 years time.

[immense]

i don't think it will 'cuz i'm gonna try revive it innit

[Jordy]

Just don't go about it how I did Jake, it's got me no where :L

[Jam]

Think how the africans live and don't complain about some bird.

[immense]

Just don't go about it how I did Jake, it's got me no where :L

hahaha nah i'm going to cry about it over a habbo forum instead i decided

Think how the africans live and don't complain about some bird.

falling for people is universal and i bet african people don't enjoy being heartbroken either

[Jam]

falling for people is universal and i bet african people don't enjoy being heartbroken either

I'm sure the imminent danger of famine and poverty 'concerns' them more than their teenage relationships.