I need help

[Nemo]

can i just ask whats making you think about suicide? What exactly are your problems?

[blackops121]

I really don't want anyone I know to find out though, I'm too scared.


I've been getting bullied at school for quite awhile now, not physically, but just silly people starting rumors up ect. and it escalated so much that now alot of people don't like me and the only few friends I have remaining don't seem to care about me much anymore, i'm too scared to even go outside with someone I know incase i come across someone who feels the need to say something which will make the person i'm with find out about it.
Also i have a fear that my girlfriend who I really love and have liked for around 6 months before we started going out, is possibly thinking about dumping me or something, Which added onto the problems with school, I just don't think I can handle it all.

[Shar]

I really don't want anyone I know to find out though, I'm too scared.

Why are you scared
It might help you.

[Nemo]

can i just ask whats making you think about suicide? What exactly are your problems?

I really don't want anyone I know to find out though, I'm too scared.

Just gonna ask again coz i dont think you saw and im impatient as balls.

[blackops121]

I'm scared cause I don't know how I could tell them, how they would react or if I will be made to look silly.

Also I don't quite understand nemo?

[Nemo]

I really don't want anyone I know to find out though, I'm too scared.


I've been getting bullied at school for quite awhile now, not physically, but just silly people starting rumors up ect. and it escalated so much that now alot of people don't like me and the only few friends I have remaining don't seem to care about me much anymore, i'm too scared to even go outside with someone I know incase i come across someone who feels the need to say something which will make the person i'm with find out about it.
Also i have a fear that my girlfriend who I really love and have liked for around 6 months before we started going out, is possibly thinking about dumping me or something, Which added onto the problems with school, I just don't think I can handle it all.

Wow is that it? Im sorry but bullying can be hard but that's nothing to be suicidal over. I have felt like killing myself a number of times, both when ive been young and somewhat recently and you have nothing to being crying over. Hell, as sad as i was i probably shouldn't have been thinking of something like that since there's people SOOOOOOOOOOO much worse off its unbelievable. But anyway, back to you. Bullying is something that can be easily dealt with, if they're just rumours, ignore them. It's not even physical so im really not seeing a problem here, its not as though you're fearing for your health (or even that you're ill yourself). Just tell an adult/teacher and get it sorted with, if need be move schools if its THAT hard to cope.

As for your girlfriend, that's just your pesimistic mind, making you paranoid. Talk to her about your feelings and she'll either reassure you, or itll be true, in which case you can stop worrying and just get over it. Atleast you have a girlfriend mate.

Im sorry but you have nothing to even be depressed over. Easily solved solutions.

I'm scared cause I don't know how I could tell them, how they would react or if I will be made to look silly.

Also I don't quite understand nemo?

U edited ur post nvm.

[buttons]

I really don't want anyone I know to find out though, I'm too scared.


I've been getting bullied at school for quite awhile now, not physically, but just silly people starting rumors up ect. and it escalated so much that now alot of people don't like me and the only few friends I have remaining don't seem to care about me much anymore, i'm too scared to even go outside with someone I know incase i come across someone who feels the need to say something which will make the person i'm with find out about it.
Also i have a fear that my girlfriend who I really love and have liked for around 6 months before we started going out, is possibly thinking about dumping me or something, Which added onto the problems with school, I just don't think I can handle it all.

hey, you should be really thankful you still have your girlfriend & you should talk to her about it. i'm sure you still have your family too? a problem shared is a problem halved. just keep your head held high and don't let them show you it bothers you and eventually it should stop, i know it's hard but it's the best way. btw suicide in my opinion, is a selfish, cowardly option when you have other people around you that do love you. it's not really fair on your girlfriend or family is it? i personally believe you're being paranoid over her but i don't know your circumstances. once you get through something horrible you can get through anything. find something you love doing, give yourself aims and don't let anyone let you do different. it could be a lot worse, remember what you do have. either way you have to find someone you trust to talk about it.
& it's not silly lol sometimes you just have to ask for help, everyone is entitled to it. you'll find it somewhere, you just have to be willing to open up.

[Shar]

I really don't want anyone I know to find out though, I'm too scared.


I've been getting bullied at school for quite awhile now, not physically, but just silly people starting rumors up ect. and it escalated so much that now alot of people don't like me and the only few friends I have remaining don't seem to care about me much anymore, i'm too scared to even go outside with someone I know incase i come across someone who feels the need to say something which will make the person i'm with find out about it.
Also i have a fear that my girlfriend who I really love and have liked for around 6 months before we started going out, is possibly thinking about dumping me or something, Which added onto the problems with school, I just don't think I can handle it all.

You're really lucky to have your girlfriend while you're going through this hard time. I think you should talk to her about everything as it might help and then you can get it out of your system.

[blackops121]

I know its not that big a reason and I probably am being abit paranoid and making being abit extreme, but for 3 years i've been going to school, sitting in a class getting constant things said to me that are really upsetting, and it can just build and build.

Also I'm not too sure about telling her, shes a really easy going type of person, who likes to go with the flow, if I told her about this she would probably be very freaked out by it or something and if my suspicions are correct about her possibly dumping me, if it is not just paranoia, this could be the final nail in the coffin if i tell her.

[Nemo]

I know its not that big a reason and I probably am being abit paranoid and making being abit extreme, but for 3 years i've been going to school, sitting in a class getting constant things said to me that are really upsetting, and it can just build and build.

Ive been bullied myself, i know what it feels like. You have 3 options.

1) Confront the bullies, see what their issue is and try it work out with them.
2) Change school, the easiest of the options and immediately sorts out your problem.
3) Talk to an adult/teacher. THey can always help and sort it out, you never know. Cant get any worse apparently.


Either way, you shouldn't even be even close to contemplating suicide and the fact that you are just surprises me.