Looking for some advice

[Nemo]

I don't know, maybe, im not sure, Neah English.
I just texted her saying it just seems like whenever you speak to him you speak less to me, and she basically said how does it, We seem the same to me :/

eh nononono, abort abort. That's so unbelievably needy. You just wanna, as i said before which you seem to have ignored, set some boundaries. Tell her that you don't like it when she hangs around him and flirts with him still. You dont need to be, no, you shouldnt be all needy and be like "why u no like me so much anymore pls like me more", that'll just turn her off you even more.

[Jack!]

eh nononono, abort abort. That's so unbelievably needy. You just wanna, as i said before which you seem to have ignored, set some boundaries. Tell her that you don't like it when she hangs around him and flirts with him still. You dont need to be, no, you shouldnt be all needy and be like "why u no like me so much anymore pls like me more", that'll just turn her off you even more.

Yeah true, she said she could see my point, i said about how she seems to be the same with him, even when were together kinda thing, Yeah I know.

[.x.miss.angel.x]

Just ask her whats going on. Just say, Do you really like me, or am i the next best thing until you can get the first choice. Otherwise, you could get hurt and she will just scamper off... Good luck!

[Jack!]

Just ask her whats going on. Just say, Do you really like me, or am i the next best thing until you can get the first choice. Otherwise, you could get hurt and she will just scamper off... Good luck!

Well, it turns out yesterday while shopping she explained everything to him, I had a facebook message from him confirming this, how he is happy for us both, and that he explained to her how it would of never worked between them anyway, with the age gap etc, and now we've said we would meet up on Monday, from what i can see its a kinda no hard feelings thing for us both. her idea :L but yeah, everything appears to be okay now

[Katty24]

Only just read this, but if you have any more problems or you're worried about something with her and that, arrange to meet up and talk about it. Not over MSN, not over Facebook, actual person-to-person contact.

I kinda know how you feel, I remember being with a guy and like we argued so much over Facebook and MSN but we never actually spoke something out or confronted each other in person - always on the 'net. In the end we broke up and stuff. But yeah, if anything crops up again, go round her house unexpectedly or something and just talk it out in a matter like you were friends or similar if you get what I mean.

[Nicola]

I'm glad to see that you're feeling a little better about it, but the best thing to do it talk about it whenever you get the feelings because it's a tricky situation, and if you don't talk about it it just builds up inside you and makes you incredibly paranoid which is when everything gets messy.

Only just read this, but if you have any more problems or you're worried about something with her and that, arrange to meet up and talk about it. Not over MSN, not over Facebook, actual person-to-person contact.

I kinda know how you feel, I remember being with a guy and like we argued so much over Facebook and MSN but we never actually spoke something out or confronted each other in person - always on the 'net. In the end we broke up and stuff. But yeah, if anything crops up again, go round her house unexpectedly or something and just talk it out in a matter like you were friends or similar if you get what I mean.

I agree with the whole face to face thing. Sometimes I don't think people realise how upset you can be about something until they see your emotions face to face, it's not as personal and close over MSN, facebook etc.

[Jack!]

I'm glad to see that you're feeling a little better about it, but the best thing to do it talk about it whenever you get the feelings because it's a tricky situation, and if you don't talk about it it just builds up inside you and makes you incredibly paranoid which is when everything gets messy.

I agree with the whole face to face thing. Sometimes I don't think people realise how upset you can be about something until they see your emotions face to face, it's not as personal and close over MSN, facebook etc.

We spent today together, everything is okay now, I think it was just me worrying about everything, we are better then ever now, Thanks to everyone for the advice

[Narnat,]

I agree with the whole face to face thing. Sometimes I don't think people realise how upset you can be about something until they see your emotions face to face, it's not as personal and close over MSN, facebook etc.

I totally agree with what Nicola has said also you really need to tell her to get herself sorted out you can't go with two people.