What the hell do i do here...

[danzooo]

Thanks very much everyone for all the replies, you've all been great!

I got an absolute bollocking off my pal the other night for seeing her the night before, and whilst it bothered me to hear all the hurtful things he said about her, what he was saying made sense, and I had to agree with him (although not out loud!)

I've decided what I'm going to do is just carry on the way I'm going and see how it turns out. My two best friends don't like her but tbf, they don't need to speak to her/be with her at any time and I'm never going to bump them off for her anyway; one of my best friends is with her new boyfriend an awful lot and the other one I see at work all the time anyway aswell as when we're out at night etc.

I do like her a lot but I'm going to tread very carefully, and not let anything she does bother me because after all - there's no exclusivity rights as of yet. She has admitted to me that she does regret anything she's done in the past to hurt me and said she'd be jealous/upset if I did any of that stuff to her.

We'll see how things unfold from here...

[Catzsy]

Thanks very much everyone for all the replies, you've all been great!

I got an absolute bollocking off my pal the other night for seeing her the night before, and whilst it bothered me to hear all the hurtful things he said about her, what he was saying made sense, and I had to agree with him (although not out loud!)

I've decided what I'm going to do is just carry on the way I'm going and see how it turns out. My two best friends don't like her but tbf, they don't need to speak to her/be with her at any time and I'm never going to bump them off for her anyway; one of my best friends is with her new boyfriend an awful lot and the other one I see at work all the time anyway aswell as when we're out at night etc.

I do like her a lot but I'm going to tread very carefully, and not let anything she does bother me because after all - there's no exclusivity rights as of yet. She has admitted to me that she does regret anything she's done in the past to hurt me and said she'd be jealous/upset if I did any of that stuff to her.

We'll see how things unfold from here...

Very best of luck with this and I hope all goes well. You seem to have realistic expectations of how the relationship could go.