one thing you actively seek/actively avoid in a partner?

iLogan · 25-03-2012, 08:10 PM

Seek: Over-confidence / authoritativeness
Avoid: timidness

**Inseriousity.** · 25-03-2012, 09:53 PM

I seek anyone stupid enough to have me LOL but even I'm not stupid enough to date chavs or people so far up their own arse if they open their eyes they see their intestines. I like someone who's down to earth.

Amberr · 25-03-2012, 10:05 PM

seek: biggest cliché ever but someone who can make me laugh. I hate serious people, I don't think I am ever going to grow up properly and be 'mature' so someone who understands my humour would have to be important I think. Physically I got something with guys with longish hair (I obvs don't mean like past there shoulders or anything) guys who don't use products on there hair (cannot stand spikey over gelled hair yuck) dark blonde also would be my ideal partner. I probably go for that as I never do anything to my hair, i'm all for the 'au naturel'. not overally fat would be a bonus aswell. o and a good fashion sense would be nice, no adidas or 'chaviness' in sight.

avoid: someone who thinks they are 'it'. untrustworthiness especially. cockiness and just way too over confident is a major turn off. I like the odd drink or two but out every night getting smashed it's not my kind of partner. physically, pretty much already stated. spiked hair just no and any sign of adidas i think i will scream.

wow ok just realised how picky i actually am, maybe this is why i'm still single haha

**Neversoft** · 25-03-2012, 10:21 PM

For me, I think it's most important to have someone that genuinely wants to be with me, someone who enjoys trying to understand me and loves me for who I am. I'm too stupidly emotional and sensitive, and too hopelessly romantic, that I could never enter a half-arsed relationship and I can't cope with heartbreak. I need someone who is loyal, caring and level-headed. Unfortunately they're in short supply. I'd also like someone who I can joke and be silly with, but also someone I can cry in front of and confide in and who has no gripes with trusting me and believing in me. Basically I just need me but as a woman. I avoid everything the opposite of what I just said. Especially shallow people, self-centered people and liars and those who think trust means very little. Usually those aspects come hand-in-hand, though.

**David** · 25-03-2012, 10:38 PM

don't know what i seek.
but i try to avoid people who get jealous & paranoid easily, "love" me and get clingy.

RyRy · 25-03-2012, 11:31 PM

Originally Posted by Ambzz.

seek: biggest cliché ever but someone who can make me laugh. I hate serious people, I don't think I am ever going to grow up properly and be 'mature' so someone who understands my humour would have to be important I think. Physically I got something with guys with longish hair (I obvs don't mean like past there shoulders or anything) guys who don't use products on there hair (cannot stand spikey over gelled hair yuck) dark blonde also would be my ideal partner. I probably go for that as I never do anything to my hair, i'm all for the 'au naturel'. not overally fat would be a bonus aswell. o and a good fashion sense would be nice, no adidas or 'chaviness' in sight.

avoid: someone who thinks they are 'it'. untrustworthiness especially. cockiness and just way too over confident is a major turn off. I like the odd drink or two but out every night getting smashed it's not my kind of partner. physically, pretty much already stated. spiked hair just no and any sign of adidas i think i will scream.

wow ok just realised how picky i actually am, maybe this is why i'm still single haha

wow amber you pretty much described me x