Relationship help?

[Phil]

Okay this might not help but I'll give it a go!

I had a massive fight with my girlfriend over something a while ago. We didn't talk for a few days over it and although she wanted to forgive me she didn't know if she could because even though what I did was so minuscule (which everyone except her could see) she didn't want us to be in another fight because she can't handle being so hurt.

Eventually we got back on track and are better than ever but it took a lot of (UNREAL) effort. I basically kept apologising, telling her a loved and trying to show her that she can trust me again. See that's probably what's happening with your girlfriend, since you've done that she might think you'll hurt her again so just ensure her of how much you love her and that you'd never do anything to purposely hurt her. A line that got me somewhere was "This is all new to both of us so everyday is a learning experience so of course mistakes are going to be made, you just need to see that once that mistake has happened once, it's not going to happen again because I'd do everything in my power to kept it from doing so" but I'm not sure how much that can apply to you.

I'll keep an eye on this thread and offer whatever help I can.

[mrwoooooooo]

Every time I ring her up and text her she just says that she doesn't want to go through the same thing again, all my friends think that she's overreacting and has literally acted spontaneously but doesn't want to admit it. At first she wouldn't speak to me at all, I had to speak to my friend who was with her and he'd pass on the message, later on I spoke to her and it was like speaking with a stranger. She was like that on the texts we sent last night, just oblivious to what had gone on as if she was the only that got hurt.

dont talk to her for a week and she'll come crawling back, if she does actually like you

[GoldenMerc]

dont talk to her for a week and she'll come crawling back, if she does actually like you

Exactly my words.

[Gibs960]

Today I got back with her and we spent most of the day together but she just kept texting this guy and even if she was sitting right next to me holdin my hand she'd walk off, text him back and then come back to me.

I got thinking about it and I thought "that's weird considering she said she had no texts left and that's why she couldn't text me back."