Dates

[FlyingJesus]

Nope seems a weird way of doing things to me, very synthetic environment

[wixard]

Nope seems a weird way of doing things to me, very synthetic environment

how would you get to know someone then? just genuinely curious cos i've only had about 3/4 proper boyfriends in my time and besides the first 2, i'd usually get with them on a night out drunk and then go meet them somewhere one on one, which surely classifies as a date...

[FlyingJesus]

I usually know people before I get with them like friends who turn into something else or w/e, don't think I've ever met up with someone after getting with them in a club as a stranger

[orientalframe?]

never been on one. me and dates don't really go into the same sentence, don't really have to say anything else

[wixard]

I usually know people before I get with them like friends who turn into something else or w/e, don't think I've ever met up with someone after getting with them in a club as a stranger

yeah but surely going on a date with an acquaintance is more or less the same as going on one with a random you've met in a club

I've never went on a date with a stranger but I can't see it being much different, how else are you meant to get to know them?

[Samantha]

With me an my current boyfriend he sort of asked me out over a text as I said if I wanted to go to the cinema I wouldn't have anyone to go with so he said he would go with me. I must have agreed to an extent as he said:

"Omg I can't believe I just asked you out and you sort of said yes."

Then I said that it wasn't a date as I'd just got out of a relationship and everything and didn't know what was happening with that, then I found my ex was a douche so one day I waited for my boyfriend to come out of work, he walked over to me and hugged me so I kissed him (he didn't even expect it and girls can kiss guys ok) and he was so shocked and everything, but we weren't dating then as our 'cinema date' was on the Monday.

Anyway, Monday came and we didn't go to the cinema as I'd never been on a date before - even with my ex, we were dating 21 months and never went on a proper date. So we went shopping and stuff so we could talk and he agreed he'd ask me out properly not over a text.

He then went to the toilet and I knew he'd come back, come behind me and ask me out and he did, we've been together ever since woo 6 months. So does that count?

[FlyingJesus]

yeah but surely going on a date with an acquaintance is more or less the same as going on one with a random you've met in a club

I've never went on a date with a stranger but I can't see it being much different, how else are you meant to get to know them?

idk I don't really do one-on-one that much except in the bedroom and not even then always might just be that I prefer doing social things as a group usually so if I'm gonna be with someone they're going to need to be good around my friends and stuff anyway so might as well has everyone there to make me look good, obv not everyone will be like that though

[Rachel]

I go on a date often with my fiance still. At first, it was like omg hey *Breaths* so how are you * Breaths * He says so did you love spending your time with me tonight? I was like *Ummmmmm * breaths * Yes it was lovely*

We have been together for 2 years and 6 months and it is fine now Just the moment he proposed me to get engaged I was like *Really Omg I almost fainted* lol but it was so romantic


Just take your time and live the moment. No rush. It is normal to be shy at first on the first date but eventually it will break the ice and you will be fine

[Yawn]

thx zammy and congrats

[Shar]

I go on a date often with my fiance still. At first, it was like omg hey *Breaths* so how are you * Breaths * He says so did you love spending your time with me tonight? I was like *Ummmmmm * breaths * Yes it was lovely*

We have been together for 2 years and 6 months and it is fine now Just the moment he proposed me to get engaged I was like *Really Omg I almost fainted* lol but it was so romantic


Just take your time and live the moment. No rush. It is normal to be shy at first on the first date but eventually it will break the ice and you will be fine

Aww congratulations