I can't get over my ex-girlfriend

[Kyle]

cutting off communication is not the answer imo. find a way to accept that you two are past the stage of being in love. she dumped you which means she did not feel as strongly as you did (and still do by looks of it) so holding onto these feelings is not something you should do either. let go. you clearly want her in your life so stop being so obsessive and simmer down for a while. when you come to terms with what is going on, figure out a way to talk to her rationally and become at least friends again. u not going to get over your feelings overnight or even over a few months so just gotta pretend like u dont care until u actually dont i guess.

[Yawn]

How do I do that?

just relax man

[wixard]

you are so young! honestly I think most of us here know how you feel and have experienced the whole 'im hurting so much nobody will ever understand' BUT WE ALL DO! and guess what, it will never fully go away, it's something you learn to live with and it just takes (forgive me for the T word) TIME. honestly, time heals all and even though you don't think it you will soon become interested in another person, and slowly your feelings for your ex will fade as this new person starts to take up your thinking time. there are gonna be times you think you're alright but something will trigger that gut wrenching feeling of heartbreak and you'll want to become miserable again and feel sorry for yourself but DONT. just carry on and it'll fade again. sorry im on my phone in uni so tbh don't even know if what I wrote make sense but just please know you're not going to feel like this forever and it's quite evident that it's time for you to move on, you're not the only one in this situation

[crystaldd0]

If you've tried 5 times to work things out then it probably just isn't meant to be. If you're sure there is no chance of you guys working out then it would be best you have no communication at all with each other. Knowing in the back of your head you could easily email her gives you a piece of mind I suppose, but then again it leaves yourself in a vulnerable position. You're going about getting over her in a proper manner, which is good. It may not be working now but given time it's sure to work. Time is a key aspect of getting over someone! However, how long it will take is uncertain :I

[Sian]

you need to realise that if you've had very strong feelings for her for a long time it's going to take a long time to get over them. I've heard people say that it takes atleast half the length of the relationship to get over a person, so you've got a while a to go. Just keep doing what you're doing, as others have said try to stop contact all together and you'll get through it.

The good thing is you're trying your best to do it the right way.

[Catchy]

you are so young! honestly I think most of us here know how you feel and have experienced the whole 'im hurting so much nobody will ever understand' BUT WE ALL DO! and guess what, it will never fully go away, it's something you learn to live with and it just takes (forgive me for the T word) TIME. honestly, time heals all and even though you don't think it you will soon become interested in another person, and slowly your feelings for your ex will fade as this new person starts to take up your thinking time. there are gonna be times you think you're alright but something will trigger that gut wrenching feeling of heartbreak and you'll want to become miserable again and feel sorry for yourself but DONT. just carry on and it'll fade again. sorry im on my phone in uni so tbh don't even know if what I wrote make sense but just please know you're not going to feel like this forever and it's quite evident that it's time for you to move on, you're not the only one in this situation

this 100% so good at advice tara the amount of times I have come to you with a broken heart!

[Barkseh]

1. Don't keep checking her Facebook. 2. Don't fool yourself into thinking you can still be friends.

[Lanyon]

Really appreciate all your comments.

[Futz]

i's say stop it with the emails - esp if she blocked you lmao

and just give it time dude, it's probaby the only way you'll get over her
3-4 months isnt really all that long, give it a bit longer and it'll fade

i think you've just built this unhealthy dependency on her, even in the relationship so it's probably good for you to take some time off

just be single for a while, you'll meet some good people when you're not even looking - i've never inderstood this mindset where you're actively "looking for girlfriend" - this way people just get with anyone

just kind of drift through life 'til you find a girl that can put up with your **** and vice versa

[karter]

it's obv she doesn't want to talk to you so feel insulted and start hating her