I know that I could if I needed or wanted to, but I don't generally discuss those topics with them that much. I just find it awkward.

I know that I could if I needed or wanted to, but I don't generally discuss those topics with them that much. I just find it awkward.
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would never choose to discuss such a thing with them, think it would change the dynamic of our relationship. they're fairly open and there if I do need/want to discuss it tho.
I can talk to my mum about most things.. I wouldn't inform her about things she didn't need to know.![]()
My dad, I can't maintain a conversation with him because I stutter and get nervous because he's so opinionated and huffy.
I can talk to my sister, my best friend and boyfriend about those things better though.
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my family passes on information really easily to extended family members. If i were to talk about personal things like relationships etc I'd tell mum and then let her tell dad lol. Although I don't have the need to talk about relationships, love or sex because there is none happening at the moment lmao.
oh god no i keep all that private
anything else though i can easily speak to my mum
i cant they make fun of me
anyway
My mum's spoke about sex with me countless times, and she stopped that ages ago when I was with Max as she understood and she knew Max wasn't an idiot. I managed to tell her that Max had always said that he'd rather wait or use protection himself than let me go on the pill and potentially ruin my body in the future. She found that sweet at least.
I remember she used to ask me if I'd kissed my ex and for ages I kept saying no because I couldn't face saying yes as he was my first proper boyfriend and that was my business.
Now though, she asks near enough every day if me and Max is going to get back together, but it's so annoying and sometimes she doesn't realise that I need some things kept to myself, especially the ones I can't answer either.
Whenever I got a boyfriend I would text my mum and tell her, I randomly told her I had a boyfriend once and I got the third degree as he was a family friend or in part of a feud. That didn't work out, bit it wasn't until Max that I managed to tell her properly and everything which I was proud about. Usually, I tell my mum and she will tell my dad, they then assume I've already told my sister then she's just surprised lmao.
Over the years though, I've realised my mum will probably tell other family members, my dad will always make a joke about it, and the only people I can talk to are my sister, Max or @lawrawrrr;.
That's longer than I thought, I know my parents are there if I need them.
I can't talk to my dad because he's never around and my grandma can't actually hear what I'm saying to her because she's really deaf so that would be a waste of time
But I know if I talk to my mum about things she immediately goes and tells her sister and sometimes her aunts and then they spread it on and spread it on and then suddenly the whole family knows. So I don't tell her things anymore because it's already caused some disputes between me and my aunt...
i talk to my mum about sex all the time and things to do with relationships, even my dad within reason of course
i spoke to my mum once about being upset, but i had just had the implant done and it gives you mood swings so...
i can't openly tell them my thoughts and feelings because i have a different mindset to them but i'm hardly private with them
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