Need help sorta

[Kyle]

To be honest I think you're being extremely selfish by making this about how their turmoil effects you and not taking much time to consider how brave they are being and how much trust they've instilled in you to want to actually share their story. You make out like you suspected something all along -- why only now does it enrage you? Gender doesn't matter and they are still the person you became friends with no matter what they hid or are still hiding from you. The closer you get and the more they trust you, the more you will eventually learn about them. So long as this person is being honest with themselves and the person they are pursuing, the fact that they pretended to be someone else in the past should not really come into a relationship they are having with you in the present. Your trust will build eventually but for now try to have a little compassion.

[Spuds]

This reminds me that the new series of Catfish starts next month.

[Matt]

I knew someone for about a year as a boy and then they came out as a girl and I was a bit weirded out by it but It doesn't really bother me. People online have the ability to mask their identity with very little effort so when stuff like this happens I'm just like, oh ok cool. I understand they must have their reasons behind why they did it but i've heard of stuff like this happening before and yeah. I guess in your case, it's up to you how you feel about it and whether or not you want to talk to them again. I would as it doesn't phase me but yeah.