Couple dilemma :o

[scottish]

wtf is a thot

but yeah regardless it'll probably come out in the end and better your partner telling you than knowing everyone else about you knows and you were last to find out lol.. so encourage the friend to tell the other person.

[FlyingJesus]

If they're hot try to get with them as well

[Sharon]

i would want to be told more than anything if someone knew because if someone ever cheated on me that would be it without any consideration

but vice versa i don't think i would be able to break someone by telling them, but i would want to badly so if u do have the courage to... i think you should

[Futz]

it pretty pretty much means ****

it's an abbreviation of "that *** over there"
doesn't make much sense but it's like the opposite of a "bae" lmaoooo


but yeah if a girl cheats, it's really just a matter of time before she slips up

[Sian]

i havent been in this position yet, luckily.

I don't think I'd tell though, I'd definitely try and persuade the cheater to come clean, and try to figure out why they did it in the first place.

[BeanEgg]

Depends who has your main loyalty. I've been in this situation, and I sided with the person who I was closer with, in this case I kept silent.

[Daltron]

Tell the person who cheated that they should fess up or you'll tell them because it's unfair


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[Kardan]

Summary of this thread:

If you're female, don't tell.

If you're male, tell.

I would tell.

[Becca]

been in this situation once too, like jen said it's not my business but this girl started saying stuff like, 'oh you need a boyfriend like mine becca because yours obviously doesn't care for you enough, our bond in the relationship is amazing and you and arron aren't like that'

so i told the ***** straight

[Chippiewill]

Depends on the situation, if the cheater told you themselves then you can't break their confidence. If you found out through other means then you should tell the cheater you're aware and give them the opportunity to tell the other before you do.