Comfortable...?

[the wombats]

Ross, I know for awhile that you were :p You told me and Kyle on MSN

Edit by Urges - Please try to stay on topic, thankyou.

[ross]

Ross, do not worry mate I'm glad to see you have taken the first step in coming forward and telling others, in time you will realise that the truth outside will be much better off your chest than hidden away inside. It took my friend about a year before he could accept himself, i'm glad that now he told me so now I am helping him in his depression times, all he thinks about is what others think.

If I had to be honest, I wouldn't give a damn about what anyone else thought, they either accept or they don't, but then again that is just my thought others think differently...

Thankyou that's good advice.

But life these days, people think that two people of the same *** is 'ew' well, it isn't. It makes me mad sometimes, I feel like telling my Mum - but I have 4 brothers and a sister, and they all play football my sister does dance, and here's me on the computer telling people I met online that I am bi, gay-curious. I just don't have the courage

[Pulchritudinous]

I know I'm straight, because well, I just know, lol.

I'm comfortable with my bisexual friend, I don't agree with it, because she's only 14, and I told her she can't know at this age.

But anyways, sometimes I worry that she fancies me, I know it's pathetic but yeah. :/

[Roboevil]

But anyways, sometimes I worry that she fancies me, I know it's pathetic but yeah. :/

What would be wrong if she did fancy you?

[ross]

I know I'm straight, because well, I just know, lol.

I'm comfortable with my bisexual friend, I don't agree with it, because she's only 14, and I told her she can't know at this age.

But anyways, sometimes I worry that she fancies me, I know it's pathetic but yeah. :/

That's understandable that you worry, but really you don't know what she's going through, really it is hard, so you can't really say that she 'can't know if she's bisexual at the age of 14' because I was when I was 14. Maybe our hormones started earlier? btw this isn't meant to sound harsh.

[icebox12]

Ross you know that the support I give and many others give is all what your family and friends will do. You have nothing to worry about, your mother will not look at you in a different way as she loves you for who you are, your brothers and sisters may think it is rather weird at first but do remember they are your family, flesh and blood they will always love for who you are, they will also accept it the minuit you tell them, you have nothing to worry about.

I will do as much as I can to help you with building up the courage but do remember I can only show you the path, you must walk it.

I, myself and many others will do everything we can to help you/give your advice, but do remember family, friends and people you can talk to in a proper conversation (face to face) will be able to help more.

I hope you do feel better about your sexuality

[ross]

Ross you know that the support I give and many others give is all what your family and friends will do. You have nothing to worry about, your mother will not look at you in a different way as she loves you for who you are, your brothers and sisters may think it is rather weird at first but do remember they are your family, flesh and blood they will always love for who you are, they will also accept it the minuit you tell them, you have nothing to worry about.

I will do as much as I can to help you with building up the courage but do remember I can only show you the path, you must walk it.

I, myself and many others will do everything we can to help you/give your advice, but do remember family, friends and people you can talk to in a proper conversation (face to face) will be able to help more.

I hope you do feel better about your sexuality

Aw, we should be mods this brings tears to my eyes, helping alot of people who are feeling just the same as me.

[Pulchritudinous]

What would be wrong if she did fancy you?

I'd feel uncomfortable..

That's understandable that you worry, but really you don't know what she's going through, really it is hard, so you can't really say that she 'can't know if she's bisexual at the age of 14' because I was when I was 14. Maybe our hormones started earlier? btw this isn't meant to sound harsh.

I know what you mean, but she is totally unashamed, she's confident, and didn't care about people knowing, which is why nobody has a problem with it.

[icebox12]

I know I'm straight, because well, I just know, lol.

I'm comfortable with my bisexual friend, I don't agree with it, because she's only 14, and I told her she can't know at this age.

But anyways, sometimes I worry that she fancies me, I know it's pathetic but yeah. :/

You have nothing to worry about, your friend treasures your friendship she will not do anything to ruin that. If she did have feelings for you, you shouldn't take it in any offencive way, just remember know-one can hold their feelings away for ever, they will have to have their out burst and release it (meaning, she will have to comfront you and tell you she has feelings for you).

Just think of it as, you have a crush on a boy and you are good friends with him, it is hard to hold your feelings away and try and forget about them. The only way to feel comfortable once again is to go out and tell them your feelings, if you do not you will be hurting inside for a very long time. Your friend most probably knows that if she does tell you, you will not be able to replie with the same feelings as she has. She will then know that your answer/replie will not be the one she wants to hear but the one she can live with.

[Pulchritudinous]

You have nothing to worry about, your friend treasures your friendship she will not do anything to ruin that. If she did have feelings for you, you shouldn't take it in any offencive way, just remember know-one can hold their feelings away for ever, they will have to have their out burst and release it (meaning, she will have to comfront you and tell you she has feelings for you).

Just think of it as, you have a crush on a boy and you are good friends with him, it is hard to hold your feelings away and try and forget about them. The only way to feel comfortable once again is to go out and tell them your feelings, if you do not you will be hurting inside for a very long time. Your friend most probably knows that if she does tell you, you will not be able to replie with the same feelings as she has. She will then know that your answer/replie will not be the one she wants to hear but the one she can live with.

Oh no, I wouldn't be offended, I accept the fact that some people have different sexualities, I'd just feel a teeny bit 'icky'. =/