'Friends'

**Hannah** · 18-08-2015, 12:04 PM

Originally Posted by Kimmy

I did this before and he stopped talking to me so I thought I'd done something wrong. I know now that he's obviously just trying to mess around because he's jealous and upset that I didn't choose him. Then he's all:

:/// Then he says it was a bad idea to get with anyone in the first place yet I'm 100% sure that wouldn't be the case if I'd thrown myself at him and chose to ruin a 5 year relationship instead of actually want to be with someone I properly like?

Ah then I wouldn't even tell him or say bye. Just block him on everything and have done with the sorry excuse of a guy.

Phil · 18-08-2015, 12:07 PM

@Kimmy; If he's not happy that you're happy with Matt then he's not a real friend. He's looking past what you actually feel and just seeing that you're hot and super sound so he's like I wanna piece of that.

Kimmy · 18-08-2015, 12:12 PM

Originally Posted by Phil

@Kimmy; If he's not happy that you're happy with Matt then he's not a real friend. He's looking past what you actually feel and just seeing that you're hot and super sound so he's like I wanna piece of that.

Yass Phil. I told him to piss off anyway, Matt's too chill to have someone be jealous of him.

But tbh then there's @xxMATTGxx; who's being mean to me right now and making my forum slow so er he's in the dog house too.

**dbgtz** · 18-08-2015, 12:16 PM

What kyle said + this is pretty childish behaviour. If I were you, I'd have stopped speaking to that person by now.

Joe · 18-08-2015, 12:18 PM

Originally Posted by Hannah

Ah then I wouldn't even tell him or say bye. Just block him on everything and have done with the sorry excuse of a guy.

Hannah you're ruthless, but yeah this.

xxMATTGxx · 18-08-2015, 12:24 PM

Like I said on Skype, he's a stupid ****.

Samantha · 18-08-2015, 12:26 PM

I had something like this with a person at work and although he spoke to me whilst I was with someone he was always pushing for something more and I'm not a cheater and he was always like, so we'll be together soon? How long? pretty much begging me. Anyway, when me and my boyfriend broke up he tried more than ever to talk to me, interact with me and he literally changed pretty much his whole 'shyness' and started going out with workmates as long as I was going too - he then tried it on, whilst the boyfriend I had just parted from was there and everything! Again he was still saying when are we going to go out and I told him no when he asked me out, he still didn't get the message - again when on a work's night out he tried something again. The day after, I got back with my boyfriend and actually told the guy even though it's nothing to do with him. He didn't understand what I meant and he later messaged me 3 weeks later saying "I thought we were friends, thanks for telling me." which I did lmao. Long story short though, it got too much - I was like you I wanted a friendship, but he wanted more and I just enjoyed talking to him as that's what it always was. I cut contact with him last July/August, and only ever spoke to him a couple of times for the picture of the rota at work, but of course he couldn't handle himself and started drunk texting me and the content was cut permanently on my behalf. He doesn't speak to me now, we only speak minimally in work, but it's just a professional relationship now, there's no feelings (on my behalf, as I'm pretty sure he still likes me lmao), and I think that is potentially the only way to stop him. However, I would just be weary that he isn't assuming Matt is going to be a 'rebound' so he'll be there to jump in yet again.