Open Relationships

[Empired]

Surprised at the number of people who are so anti open relationships - personally I think they sound ok, just not long term for me.

[Lewis]

As long as all the people in the relationship know about it and agree, it's their choice.

I wouldn't myself.

[dbgtz]

Surprised at the number of people who are so anti open relationships - personally I think they sound ok, just not long term for me.

Easier to make a decision when not faced with it I suppose. I suspect people on all sides would change their mind otherwise.

[Hannah]

The way I look at it, which is just my opinion - if you want more than one person, you shouldn't be in a relationship.

Sure, have flings and what not with whoever while you're single, but as soon as you get into a relationship surely you should focus your energy on one person rather than splitting it into two or more.

If you don't want to be stuck with one person, don't settle and risk others getting attached and hurt in the first place.

[lawrawrrr]

I've thought about it before and actually seriously considered it once. I'm not sure I believe in monogamy or not, I keep flitting between because it's nice to be committed to someone but suppressing physical urges doesn't seem natural.

Having said that I'm not exactly rolling in offers haha

[Joe]

Sharing the person I love? No thanks, could never cope with that.

[GoldenMerc]

I believe a human isn't created to be with just one women, every person has wondering eyes anyway. It's fine if both parties agree, if not, do it anyway


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[Kyle]

They can be very damaging, they're not really relationships unless each party is equally involved with one another imo. I have a friend who is very open sexually that had a girlfriend and sometimes I feel like though she consents to things, she doesn't feel the same way and only does so because she's too scared to lose him.

[buttons]

have thought of it in the past but now think that if i wanted to 'share' my partner or be 'shared' then im not with the person i want to be with, therefore what's the point on calling it a relationship? don't care if others do.

[lawrawrrr]

I believe a human isn't created to be with just one women, every person has wondering eyes anyway. It's fine if both parties agree, if not, do it anyway


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I actually agree with most of your post just not the bit at the end. if someone's not ok with an open relationship then just don't do it IMO!