have you ever cheated on someone? yes. well, kinda (see last question)


have you ever been cheated on? yes, also highly suspicious of another one


did that person forgive you? yes or they still don't know
did you forgive that person? didn't find out till after


what do you think about people who cheat? It's up to them? I don't really see the point in making such a huge deal when it's up to the person what they do and up to their partner to forgive. I just hate people who are like OMG HOW COULD YOU YOU'RE AWFUL or HOW COULD YOU FORGIVE HER SHE'S LITERALLY DISGUSTING when they don't know the full story.


would you get with someone knowing they're in a relationship? Depends. Sounds horrible... but if that person was willing and I really liked them - I've been in this situation before - then it's their decision.


what do you consider as 'cheating'? Well. I think I class anything as cheating but I think I'd go for mostly physical. HOWEVER having an emotional affair is worse for a relationship but I don't think you can help your emotions so it's not really fair to have a go at someone for it. But I do think if you're having serious feelings like that then you should really reconsider what you're doing in the other relationship.

Physical things are like, widely regarded as cheating but I think for me I could easily forgive a kiss (and that's the only thing I've really done) and don't think it's THAT big a deal as long as it's not leading to more.

I do think the majority of cheats - and it's definitely the case for me - do it at the very beginning of a relationship (before it's established) or during bad patches/close to a breakup... almost to test the waters yknow?

Obviously it's different for everyone and a big part of it is being open about it and having that mature discussion with your partner if anything does come up. End of the day we're humans and humans have urges we can't ALWAYS control, that's the way I see it anyway.