Arguments in a relationship

[Chris]

Very rarely

[Flooom]

me and @Elegance never argue!

[Elegance]

me and @Elegance never argue!

i dont know you

[welshcake]

We never have personal arguments which is mad considering we are up in each other's shit 24/7 but we do occasionally have arguments in work
maybe not arguments but we bicker if i'm caught on my phone or if i'm doing something I shouldn't be doing. which is fair enough

[Flooom]

i dont know you

shes only jokin we are married

[Kronics]

Me and my gf dont argue tbh, depends really. We debate more than anything, but that's just my relationship lol

[nat965]

We don't really argue at all. Nothing to argue about. If we do, it doesn't last very long and no one hardly notices

[Brad]

I guess this is kind of directed towards those who are dating/partnered.
But I guess my question is about arguments. How many times would you say you argue with your partner? Do you think it is healthy for you when you are able to argue?

I guess I brought this up because I have been reflecting on my past arguments and have realized that without those arguments we wouldn't be where we are today, with the openness, and just honesty.

Tell me your views of arguments in the relationship. This thread is not for advice, but just for chatting. Lol.

Thread merged by !Landon (Forum Moderator) as these two threads work well together!

[Absently]

When we first started living together 6 years ago we argued an awful lot, proper screaming matches. I think though it was for us to get used to living with each other and at that point we had only been dating like 5 months I think and seeing each other for a few days every second week or less. I was also going through a really tough time and took it out on him when I really shouldn't have. Flash forward six years and we very rarely argue and if we do we easily resolve it. They aren't usually petty things, just stuff we've been struggling with and getting it out helps us move forward on the topic. We bicker from time to time but get over it like a minute later and will have a cuddle straight after.

Some times you just have to argue when things build up and they help fix things usually. Obviously, in an ideal world you wouldn't argue but instead talk about it civilly but I don't think that's possible every time

[Brad]

Yeah, it's definitely shows growth in a relationship when arguments and screaming matches become discussion and reasoning.
My partner and I just passed our year and a half and it's different than when we first started. We've been living together for just over a year so I totally understand the stretch from not seeing much of each other to always seeing each other. Lol