a question: have you been to therapy or counseling?

[NalaLyla]

Well, if we share here, I'll tell mine. We had troubles with husband, and I wanted to end up relationship, went to a lawyer, consulted about do it yourself divorce kit till the moment I realised that we both should give a chance to our marriage. We had worked with family counsellor, who adviced to apply for separate therapy as an extra, and we did. Now it seems to be working and divorce doesn't seem as an only way. I found out that I have been looking for an adult, who would take care of me and didn't want to improve my own life. Now I understand that relationship is not the major part of my life, and I am directly responsible for stuff around me. As for my husband, he doesn't share much about the therapy, tho he became more attentive to me. I am not sure if we continue, as far as it is pretty expensive, however the therapists gave us a right direction to work with.

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