I'm sooo in love :(

[FlyingJesus]

Two questions:

1) Is he single?
2) Is so, why?

[Emicat.]

1) I think so.
2) Cause everyone thinks he's a girl -.-''

[FlyingJesus]

Which begs a third question:

3) Is he in fact, a she?

[Emicat.]

NO >:| People call him a girl cause he has long hair

[FlyingJesus]

Ahh I can sympathise with that, my hair goes almost to my elbows. Don't get many insults though, I'm pretty well liked *cheesy grin*

If he's single, just ask him out. I know it's difficult to built up the courage and the will to do so, but if you go on for too long without doing it you enter a zone where you cannot progress onto anything more than friendship.

[Emicat.]

Oh my god ag ag ag ag ag.

I know I have to but I've NEVER asked anyone out EVER!

What do I say? "Hi, would you like a bonk?"

[FlyingJesus]

If that's what you want then I don't see why not, but you might want to try something else and use that as a reserve if things don't go well.

This is why I suggested fellatio earlier, as it acts as a bridge between not going out and going out, without the awkwardness of having to think of the right wording and whatnot. I don't know what reason there is behind it, but somehow it's just easier to slob a *** than ask someone out. However, if that doesn't float your boat, then you're going to have to do one of two things:

1) Ask the question. Difficult and can be embarrassing, easy to mess up.

2) Sell yourself to him. Add some flirt, wear tops that show some cleavage and skirts/shorts that show skin too now that the weather's improving.

If a girl likes a guy, she has to make it pretty obvious.

You might think you're dropping hints, but he might just think you're being nice. In your revealing attire you should bend over often, either facing him for the breast effect or away so he can check your backside. It's not being slaggish, just helping the process speed up. This is how things really work, not just for getting someone into bed, for real relationships. You don't have to jump on his lap and bounce straight away, but doing this sort of stuff lets him know that there's the possibility of a future of it.

[Emicat.]

Thanks for the advice.

[louder]

Invite him to your house to watch a film, make suttle moves on him, andat the end of the night, ask him if he had a fun time.. If he says "yes" and smiles, your in.. he likes you, then.. Before he leaves, give him a peck on the cheeck, if he smiles to that, he definatly likes you.

I used this tactic to get with Sophie - The love of my life.. Although she did break up with me a few days ago

[Emicat.]

I have tried most of these things (not the movie thing thats a bit too fast) and I haven't asked him out.

And tips for getting my coruage up?