My dad is next to know..

[Pu$$y]

have nothing against gays.

[bi!!y]

well years ago when i was 13 i was atracted to men and went out with girls.. and when i was doing stuff with them i was thinking of boys.. and nouthing really worked with girls i faught it off

but in the end its men i am atracted to i cant remember being atracted to girls.. but as you say i am open to change but i wouldent know what it would be like to be atracted to girls soo.. i think i am gay..

Ok. You are still growing up. I think I am right in saying you used to be attracted to girls and had relationships with them, so that just proves you are at least partially straight. During puberty, you have a lot of stuff going on in your body and your hormones are crazy, sometimes causing people to become 'confused' with their sexuality. A huge majority of boys in their teenage y ears, grow up thinking their gay or having thoughts and feelings for boys, but it ends up only a phase, and once they are done with puberty realise they still infact like girls.

I think as you did like girls before, and asliking boys has only become recent, you don't necessarily have to tell him, as it might just end up it's only a phase your bodies going through, and therefore might just save a hole lot of hassle and problems.

Good luck with whatever you do though! :]


[And the fact that someone said almost 90% of this forum think they are gay, just proves my fact that a huge majority of teenage boys go through this phase and feel as though they are gay, but it doesn't always turn out like that in the end!]

[Col]

I told my mum, she was very understanding - Then she told my dad, he never spoke to me for like two days, then we started speaking..

We don't speak about my sexuality anymore, which is the way I want to keep it
I thought that I was bisexual, but now I know I am definetly gay! Bill darlin, your dad doesen't exactly need to know right now, if you know what I mean, nor does Jamie.

No matter what your parents think Bill, they'll always love you - That's what I found out

[Danny]

How about you try and find out how your dad feels about gay's.
It might help to know.

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[omgabear]

Just the thought of you doing it is brave.
We all get this crazy sterotypes that our dads want us to be perfect. Probably just wants you to be happy.

Let it out, or you can keep it to yourself and try effortlessly to hide it from him.

[Craig]

Well this is coming from a straight point of view so take my advice or not if you want. Benji has a good point about getting your mum to tell your dad but I feel that your dad would 'appreciate' it more and have more respect for you if you told him yourself. However if you got your mum to say it if she included something like 'he didnt know how you'd react and was worried' that could mean your dad would feel guilty about it no matter what his feelings are. But at the end of the day no matter how bad your Dad's reaction is your not going to change because you can't help being Gay[you might be bi I'm not sure] and it's what you want to be. If he gets angry at the end of the day you will realise that if he can't accept you for who you are then he can't really love you that much. I also thought the note idea was a good idea by leaving a note for your Dad to read when you go out or something. But I personally find it's always best to get something off your chest in person. If you do tell your Dad make sure he's in a good mood first in-case it's quite a shock. You don't want your Dad to have a rubbish day at work and then get a shock from his son when he gets home. Again this advice is from someone straight so you might not want to use it but I feel comfortable giving advice for either genders so it doesn't really bother me.

Good luck anyway!

[Many]

If hes your dad, dont be scared of him.
Im not gay so it must be hard to tell jaa.

[kobi626]

People, sorry for going off topic, but youre not gay/bi by loving someone. At this age, the teenagers aren't really sure with their sexuality, so they once fall inlove with men, and once with women. And only people who 'do it' and 100% sure they love their gender - are gays...

P.s;: I'm straight :p lol

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Hi mate, Persoanlly me, My dad is like youres, you should sit him down on youre own, or write him a little note.