You may remember her in a bad way but remember you were only 7/8 and thats a long time ago. Maybe you are so angry with her for not keeping in contact with you, you only want to remember the bad and have a mental block on good times? Obviously I don't know the full situation so can only guess on that.
At the end of the day if there is still a small part of you which loves your mum you should go for it =]
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Thread: I'm thinking of finding my mum..
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23-10-2008, 08:31 PM #21
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I’ll be a story in your head, but that’s okay, because we’re all stories in the end. Just make it a good one, eh? Because it was, you know. It was the best. A daft old man who stole a magic box and ran away. Did I ever tell you that I stole it? Well, I borrowed it. I always meant to take it back. Oh, that box, Amy, you’ll dream about that box. It’ll never leave you. Big and little at the same time. Brand-new and ancient and the bluest blue ever. And the times we had, eh? Would had…Never had. In your dreams, they’ll still be there. The Doctor and Amy Pond and the days that never came.
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Any news on what your going to do?
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its personal to you this mate, completely depends on how your mind works. if i hadn't seen someone since i was 7 i would think who are they to me, never tried to contact me you cant force yourself to love someone but thats just me. you may be missing her and love her and in that case i would go see her and find answers.
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If you're gonna say she's not a good woman don't visit her? :S Simple.
That's why we seize the moment, try to freeze it and own it, squeeze it and hold it cause we consider these minutes golden.
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24-10-2008, 01:22 AM #25
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I don't love her, I hate her, thats a strong word but I hate her.
Originally Posted by Expresions
I want to face her, I want to know who she is now, I want to see the wimp of a **** who left us and gave us away when I was only 7 years of age.(H)
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then go for it and see her. but be prepared for whatever will happen, positive or negative. sometimes its just best to bury the past, and concentrate on the future though.
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24-10-2008, 01:40 AM #27
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Yeah i'm actually getting second thoughts now, thinking how my father would feel... Originally Posted by dirrty
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Sounds like she tried to care for you, but your father was the better parent in the courts findings. Courts rarely give custody to fathers if the mother is capable of looking after her children. We don't know the circumstances, maybe you should speak with your father and get a clearer picture. Originally Posted by Earthquake
Sorry to hear that! Originally Posted by Earthquake
I hope there is a very good reason why she disappeared from your life. You seem very angry and yet you've not heard her side of the story. Before you decide on meeting her, I suggest you have a heart to heart with your father or another close relative, who knows exactly what went on before she vanished from your life. Originally Posted by Earthquake
By the way your father must be a good man, to have fought for his children
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Go and See Her - Maybe she has changed! You could start, up a relationship. Get to know her so when your older you can stay in touch
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24-10-2008, 01:03 PM #30
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She never bothard turning up to court for 8 months, from start to finish, in the end she gave up us warrants were out to arrest her and her bf Originally Posted by MissAlice
Sounds like she tried to care for you, but your father was the better parent in the courts findings. Courts rarely give custody to fathers if the mother is capable of looking after her children. We don't know the circumstances, maybe you should speak with your father and get a clearer picture.
Sorry to hear that!
I hope there is a very good reason why she disappeared from your life. You seem very angry and yet you've not heard her side of the story. Before you decide on meeting her, I suggest you have a heart to heart with your father or another close relative, who knows exactly what went on before she vanished from your life.
By the way your father must be a good man, to have fought for his children(H)
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