Hmmm, anyone feel like this?

[Teabags]

When I was fat i didn't care about my figure and just focused on having a good time.

Since I cut to about 14% bf and just bulked out I act like an absoloute pugnacious ****

miss being fat to be honest

I used to be the fattest kid in school. Wasn't bothered either. Now I'm skinny wanna go fat.

[zaphod9642]

im about the same age as you one question are you a girl?

cos im not bothered about my weight and im quite heavy lmao but i feel like this like in teh last term i managed to amke friends with the popular people (not the gay populars the poeple that everyone actualyl likes) and i am not sure why they like me. i think it is horemones

[Glen Coco]

im about the same age as you one question are you a girl?

cos im not bothered about my weight and im quite heavy lmao but i feel like this like in teh last term i managed to amke friends with the popular people (not the gay populars the poeple that everyone actualyl likes) and i am not sure why they like me. i think it is horemones

Yeh I am.
+ I can't make friends with popular hahahaha.
I've made a few new friends over the last few weeks but I just find it hard to talk to people XD.

xox

[1xBabyCakesx1]

Your probably just going through a faze. With the whole weight thing I think it would be best if you got rid of the scales because thats what messes alot of people up. And with your weight you have nothing to worry about if you want to lose weight. Don't skip meals just half them or make them healthier.

Maybe speak to someone about it. It really helps.

[kuzkasate]

You'll get over it. Thats just how life is, some people are overweight some are average yet some are under weight.

And if anyone bullies you or w.e, just shows how immature people can be.

[Glen Coco]

Hmm, lately I've been on such a high ! It's wierd to think I felt like that such a short while ago.
I'm now down to 8.0 stone and I'm feeling closer to my freinds than ever.
I talked to my friend Tori about it which actually did kind of help and I got support off her.
+ I'm now going out with a really really really nice guy.
+ I've also helped Tori get with a guy she liked, it's all going well at the moment .

xox

[Gullable]

i'm a 13 year old girl + i feel the same although not with the weight issue, i dont think im ugly its just i dont like what i look like in the mirror, well not reallyy its really weird, i think about the way i look 24/7 mostly + have to look in the mirror quite alot although i dont really like mirrors at other places.
i know this doesnt help but i wanted to get my feelings out aswell & i hope its my hormones

[Glen Coco]

now everythings gone back to normal.
i thought it'd like gone. but one little thing happened to today and i pretty much feet like the crap on the bottom of an obese mans foot.
I feel so crap.
I've put on weight, i went from like 8 to 8.6.
now my best friend is pissed off and hates me.
and everythings going so wrong.
i really do want to curl up in a ball and die.

[Toughened]

Hmm, lately I've been on such a high ! It's wierd to think I felt like that such a short while ago.
I'm now down to 8.0 stone and I'm feeling closer to my freinds than ever.
I talked to my friend Tori about it which actually did kind of help and I got support off her.
+ I'm now going out with a really really really nice guy.
+ I've also helped Tori get with a guy she liked, it's all going well at the moment .

xox

now everythings gone back to normal.
i thought it'd like gone. but one little thing happened to today and i pretty much feet like the crap on the bottom of an obese mans foot.
I feel so crap.
I've put on weight, i went from like 8 to 8.6.
now my best friend is pissed off and hates me.
and everythings going so wrong.
i really do want to curl up in a ball and die.

Just from these two comments alone show you're having mood swings by the weeks. One minute you're really happy as everything is going well, then the slightest thing goes wrong and you're feeling depressed and down again. It's natural.

Just don't beat yourself up over silly little things. Like I used to worry way to much but I've learnt to just let life pan out. It always works out in the end. It may not be the best ending but just learn to live with it and settle for what you have.

The friends problem you just need to accept you have them and treasure them. I had the exact same problem and I asked them why are you inviting me I'll be like a spare part and they flipped on me and it made me realise how stupid I was being and now we get on better than ever. Don't be scared to mix with friends of friends and such too. It can be a big confidence booster. If sometimes you feel like you don't have friends for support, no matter what you will always have your family. Friends arn't a major issue. There's always room for new ones and if you find it difficult to socialise what's wrong with being on your own from time to time? I'm happy as long as I have my family but I do understand friends are a nice thing to have.

The weight issue I think every girl has. Just accept yourself for who you are. Yeahh sure there are girls that may be skinnier than you out there, but I'm sure there are wayyy more bigger ones. Not that there's anything wrong with them either. I hate skinny skinny girls when you can see bones here and there. There is nothing wrong with a bit of weight and curves on a girl. Some lads prefer that. Oh and the meals. Don't skip them out because I've heard when you finally do eat your body stores more fat 'cause you're not eating enough for it to survive on. Just eat good proportians three times a day.

Hope I helped .

[Pixet]

Sometimes it feels like there are few things harder than liking yourself. Some people never do. But honestly, I know exactly how you feel. I've had a lot of crap in my life, recovering from ED's etc. but for what it's worth, everything will get better. I can promise you that.

Screw your weight. Do you want to look like a boy with no boobs and no figure? It's horrible. Just because you're legs and belly jiggle a little, that doesn't mean your fat. There will always be girls thinner than you and it's something you learn to accept. Most people these days are actually just 'average'. Nothing special. But those people learn to love themselves and are proud of who they really are regardless of how big the space is in-between their thighs. Don't skip meals, it sucks big time and you gain weight in the long run. Would you rather be happy and normal sized than really unhappy and deadly underweight? If you want to lose weight, eat healthy stuff and go to the gym. Stop starving, it only has two outcomes. Fat or death.

I used to worry about every single little thing. Like if a friend gives me a funny look, I'm terrified I'll lose her forever. Stupid things. It really gets you down. When you stop caring though, everything is amazing . It feels like nothing can hold you back and you're the greatest person alive! (Well, not too literally ) Just like Toughened said, your family will always be there. Even if it's only your mum you can talk to. There will always be someone in your life.

I could go on for ages but for what it's worth. Love who you are.

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