Left school.

[FlyingJesus]

Yeah it's your fault if you're a bully victim?

I quite clearly didn't say that, I said that if you're a bully victim you don't matter. Relatively speaking that is in fact true because you'll have less friends and therefore less people will care for your opinion. While you're asking though, yes it is most of the time the victim's fault

[leah]

Did anyone else ever feel that once you've left school, it was the easiest thing we ever done in life, and from leaving on life is just going to get gradually harder?

or am i just thinking of the negatives?

yeaaah was so easy and such a laugh. college can be a laugh too but its harder.

[LuketheDuke]

I quite clearly didn't say that, I said that if you're a bully victim you don't matter. Relatively speaking that is in fact true because you'll have less friends and therefore less people will care for your opinion. While you're asking though, yes it is most of the time the victim's fault

Gonna call you up on that one, sometimes kids who get bullied dont help themselves by acting up. Kids who get teased for their looks, disabilities even accents (my somerset twang is causing much merriment to many Mancs!) really cant.

also a group of chavs can pick on anyone, even on a bad day you!

but stuff gets harder, I mean sixth form really does still count as school as I never noticed things getting that much harder. Uni still has some certain comforts which I shall cling to until i gotta get a job.