Is it weird to...

Jessica.Rose · 31-10-2010, 11:28 AM

No its not wrong its natural to feel like that :p haha as long as you dnt do anything with her its fine :p

and omg about the guy hu likes his mum =/ tell him he needs to see someone about that :p haha

BlueEyedSarah · 31-10-2010, 02:00 PM

I knew someone who had a crush on his neice (Sisters daughter) for the longest time and he did end up persuing it but ended up into prison. Dating a cousin can't be as weird as that! But its weird, don't go for it in my opinion.

SirTezza · 03-11-2010, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by R0BB13G

1. Fancy someone you've met once and have only seen for a few hours and barely talked to.

2. Fancy your second cousin (parents' cousin's child).

Yeah...its not hypothetical, I met her today, she's 16, and omg as soon as I saw her I was like ;o (L).

The first time you feel something so strong, it's beautiful isn't it pal!

You gotta remember though brother that as a teenager these infatuations happen instantly. To be fair, even adults have the same feelings, but they have learnt not to jump to a conclusion right away.

I believe in love at first sight, so with that in mind, YES I think you can like her when you have only known her for a few hours. In regard to your 2nd question, and as someone else said, it is legal, but it is thought of as a little strange.

But I don't judge anyone and considering she is a 2nd cousin, it isn't quite as difficult as an immediate family member or 1st cousin. Follow your heart my friend, but be wary, because you will feel this way about someone else before long!

mr.tom · 03-11-2010, 06:05 PM

looking for an insest help forum on the internet i saw like a month ago, CANT FIND

**FlyingJesus** · 03-11-2010, 06:14 PM

Why's everyone going so mental about a 2nd cousin? It's only around 3% of shared DNA, you have to go back 3 generations to find a link, and they'd never met before anyway in this case. Most people don't even know if they have 2nd cousins or not, I know there are 2 on my dad's side but other than that who knows who I might be related to or how big an extended family might be?

It's not like he's asking if it's ok to bed his sister

wixard · 03-11-2010, 06:35 PM

i am terrified that i have been with one of my second cousins that i don't know about
doing a juliet on it

sophiethenerd · 03-11-2010, 07:30 PM

No.The amount of genes you have in common are so small.Its not as if you fancy an auntie or actual cousin or anything.I have a second cousin who I don't fancy but If I did it would be fine because its legal and we ain't harming anyone.And it could just be that you two are destined to be best mates.