A bit down and depressed :(

[Judas]

dont try and not think about her cos it wont work. just think about her. you'll think about how great she is, but then you will think about how much shes hurting you, and that makes her not worth it. dont be played around by her, just tell her to do one.

everyone that says it doesnt matter cos of how old he is, that wont help because it does hurt right now and telling him its hormones and puberty or whatever wont help. this is a human being that is clearly upset, whatever the circumstances are doesnt matter so stop putting him down even more. if you dont care or arent going to help just leave him alone, im sick of seeing posts like that on here.

[Nemo]

What are you gettin' at?

Nothing, im just answering your question. Once you come to the realisation that is highly super improbable that she is "the one", especially after hurting you, the quicker you'll get over it.

[Chris]

dont try and not think about her cos it wont work. just think about her. you'll think about how great she is, but then you will think about how much shes hurting you, and that makes her not worth it. dont be played around by her, just tell her to do one.

How can thinking about her help? In my eyes that makes it alot worse. 0.o

And I pretty much agree with what Nemo is saying, it is unlikley and in the end it will probably be a better idea to just stay friends. :]

[dbgtz]

sorry but, they held hands? imagine what you would do if they had hot, fiery sex or something. I know youre like 11 but i didnt even get jelous over that over the girl i liked at the time.

also i liked my friend once, proper close and that. dont speak to them now cos of the fact i told her. dont be me LOL.

[Chris]

I suppose at 11, it wouldnt be taken seriously...

also i liked my friend once, proper close and that. dont speak to them now cos of the fact i told her. dont be me LOL.

Exactly the same thing happend to me. Sadly I remember that day. My prom night. >.<

[Nemo]

And i didnt tell my person who i really, really liked and now we're super close friends and i wouldnt have it any other way because shes great to talk to and we can both tell each other anything, tis great to have someone that close. Sorted son.

[e5]

But still, I just can't.

Dude, you're all depressed and what not, and people are offering you advice, and you're just saying "I cant"... You atleast need to try mate... Theres plenty you can do - I've been through this stage - It's easy when you occupy your mind with something else.

[Unarmoured]

Seriously, this is just gay. Just deal with it, you're young, you'll get plenty of poon from drunk girls at parties when you're older. You shouldn't make threads like this to make you feel better about being a beaver.

[Eoin247]

I know it may feel to you like shes the one. But i've been through a simular situation before, it's best to forget and move on. My way was getting with another girl that in the end, it turned out, i liked better.

[Chris]

And i didnt tell my person who i really, really liked and now we're super close friends and i wouldnt have it any other way because shes great to talk to and we can both tell each other anything, tis great to have someone that close. Sorted son.

Lucky. >.<

Dude, you're all depressed and what not, and people are offering you advice, and you're just saying "I cant"... You atleast need to try mate... Theres plenty you can do - I've been through this stage - It's easy when you occupy your mind with something else.

Yeah, this is exactly what you need to do, just think about other things and it will soon go away. :]